im 15 and in love w an 24 year old guy and he loves me too. we were friends before he is my best friend cousin and she helps out w this but i need to know from other ppl me and him are willin to wait 3 years to date but its past 6 months and we are already makin out secretly but i dont want him to get caugh w me cause i dont want to go to jail be he says he loves me too much tht he just has to stare in my eyes all day and thts mostly wht he does and ppl already thinkin something is goin on. this is something i havent done before so im scared something might happen and my best friend is keepin it a secret for me and him but she says tht i dont know how to hide my feelins for him and her mom thinks something up already wht do i do
2006-07-05 09:07:28 · 11 answers · asked by pebbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Baby girl, you are way too young to be in love let alone with a 24 yr. old. You know that if your parents found out, Mr. 24 yr. old can go to jail. My suggestion is to you that 1. something is wrong with Mr. older guy and 2. leave him alone if you care anything about him....3. if he still loves you when you are 18 and legal then pursue the relationship but until then cool it and back away before you take on more than you can handle.
2006-07-05 09:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can almost guarantee you that in about 3 years tops you'll be moving on from this guy and never look back. You're still very young and don't even really know what YOU want. A relationship at your age is NOT worth giving a guy a criminal record. If you 'love' him so much don't ruin his life. You'll be 18 in 3 years or less. If you're still in love with him then, go for it. You're just a kid, don't confuse Love and Lust.
Also, he can get in JUST as much troble for giving or reciving any kind of sexual act with you. A past boyfriend of mine RECIEVED oral sex from 14 year old girl when he was 17. It ruined his life! If the guy can't keep his hands off of you then its obvious anyway.. he just wants what most 24 year old guys want. Sorry darlin', any 24 year old man that dates a 15 year old is a pedofile in my book. Apparently the law agrees, we have laws for a reason.
I skipped out on college the first time for a guy I was in 'love' with. Three months later... I was over him. I ended up going to college anyway so I had a second chance. A felony is a bit different. Think of him and slow your fast self down! You're just a kid!
2006-07-05 09:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Danielle ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you are so sweet.
You've probably never been in love before and so you believe this is really special.
It's not special, it's illegal.
Think about how gross it would be if you were crushing on a boy who was 6 years old!!!!
He is 9 years older than you. That's the same as you making out with a SIX YEAR OLD. It's gross.
There are guys closer to your own age who will be just as adoring and just as nice to you.
Your 24 year old guy is a loser if he can't get a girlfriend near his own age.
2006-07-05 09:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I know you won't believe me, but a guy that age with a young girl like you only wants one thing! I don't care HOW MUCH HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU! He's lookin for a place to put his dick and he's hoping you're it. You want to think it's love, but it's not! One day you WILL regret doing this. Does the fact that he could go to JAIL tell you anything? He SHOULD GO TO JAIL! He's a man and you are still a child. Nothing can change that. Don't kid yourself, he won't wait til you are older. Best of luck
2006-07-05 09:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by wishiwereatthebeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so young, know you hate to hear that, but it's true, i am not sure you really know what being in love is, maybe you do, but the bottom line is this, unless your parents are aware of and have given their permission for you to see him, he could be in big trouble...you are a minor and he is considered to be an adult - not legal, soooo - if you two are going to continue this relationship you both must be adult about it and step forward and get the approval you need from your parents. you can run, but you cannot hide and eventually you will get caught, how bad will that be?? ouch! i don't think i would let it get that far - you do remember the story of mary kay and villi?
2006-07-05 09:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then play it cool. DO NOT have sex. Even if it is not forcible rape its still statutory rape and your mom can press charges on him. You just need to wait until you are older. Just play it safe and be very careful. You should let your mom know that you guys are dating, because she may and most likely will come in between you two. Just be patient what ever that is meant to happen will happen, don't force it. If you truly love him and he does you then you guys can wait and be patient.
2006-07-05 09:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool down, if you two have sex, he could ruin his life with a felony charge and a prison sentence. If in a few years, you get together and still feel the same...go for it...but not until.
2006-07-05 09:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer this question "are you really in love or is he just forcing it on to you"?
2006-07-05 09:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that old only date girls as young as you for one reason....
2006-07-05 09:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by littlearthquake3355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...thats REALLY ILLEAGAL i mean hes old enough to be your dad!
2006-07-05 09:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋