i'm a bit insecure about my breasts- can u give me advice? no silly answers please!?

Question

I'm sure 1 of them is slightly bigger than the other and its really bugging me. Ive been told theyre the same and its in my head but i can see it. Its not bad but i just want to fix it. Is there anything i can do apart from surgery?

Answer 1

Its normal for one breast to be slightly larger than the other... if you're under 18 don't worry about it... things tend to change as your body develops it may become less obvious.

If the size difference is really pronounced you can get inserts to fill out youyr bra. Ask a really good friend the truth... she should tell you if it really is something you should be worried about.

Answer 2

t is quite common for one breast to be bigger than the other during development and for some reason it is usually the left one that grows largest. The breasts tend to even out in size and become less noticeable as development continues throughout puberty, although many women are aware that their breasts are slightly different sizes. If you are very asymmetrical by the end of puberty, and it is causing psychological problems, you may be able to have an operation to correct this on the NHS, although waiting lists can be long. If the breast is lumpy however, it is important to seek medical advice. Don't be embarrassed - your GP is used to dealing with worries like this. If you would feel more comfortable, ask to see a female doctor - or ask to see the practice nurse first, who can gently examine you and put you at your ease. The nurse can then call a doctor in to assess you if she feels this is necessary.

Answer 3

Breasts are usually asymmetrical and not just in size. They are made up fat and fibrous tissue. If you are right handed you may notice that your right breast is slightly smaller. This is because you are using that side more and consequently burning more fat. There are several factors that can affect the size of the breast:

1. Gaining or loosing weight (more fat, bigger breasts and vice- versa)

2. Exercise can enlarge the 'look' of the breasts, by enlarging the muscles beneath the breasts. However you need a lot of exercise to achieve this, what it will probably happen is that the breast size will be reduced because you are burning the fat.

In order to get both of your breast approx the same size, do exercises for arms/chest, but just do a bit more repetitions for the side where your breast is larger. You can do box fit (shadow boxing), or anything that keep your arms moving. Hope this helps.

PS. A quick fix is using a gel pad for the smaller one.

Answer 4

A slight variation in breast size is completely normal. No one is completely symmetrical. If you are unhappy though you should have corrective surgery. No, there is not another way to fix this type of problem. The surgery is, however routine and carries very little risk. The recovery time is minimal, you will be back on your feet in a day. Do research doctors in your area and surrounding areas to find the best one. The price is not what most people would think, and is actually affordable for most.

Answer 5

I have had a couple of girlfriends with the same thing and they have told me that all women have different sized breasts. And if you look around (Politely) you will start to notice this is the case in most women. It's part of being human. There are things like the tips presented in previous answers but at the end of the day you are you and I'm sure it is not something that everyone else is thinking about, especially while they are staring at your breasts.

Answer 6

Unless you have fake boobs then noone has a pair of boobs exactly the same size as each other. Relax, this is perfectly normal. Unless there is a big difference in size there really is no need to worry cos noone else will notice. Don't be so critical of yourself. nobody is perfectlt symetrical and that goes for all parts of the body. I once saw a celeb article in a magazine. It showed there face straight on as it is normally, then it matched the left half of the face to the right making each feature perfectly symetrical. With the right and left exactly the same it looked really wierd. If your worried about the way your boobs look in comparison to other women just go into google and ask what real boobs look like.. You should find a site that provides photo's of real womens breasts. They come in all shapes and sizes. That should put your mind at rest. Don't look at these models with their fake boobs. They don't look right anyway and most blokes prefer natural. Two big perfectly round globes on your chest doesn't look good. They just look like footballs. Hope you stop worrying and learn to like what you have

Answer 7

first of all u are right. one is bigger then the other like in every woman! our body, just looks like it's symmetric but for real it's not. and when u will have a baby and if u will choose to breastfeed it, u will find out that it's essayer for u on one side then the other. it's normal. u will also find out that one is giving much more milk and is getting a little bit bigger and more painful then the other.... the "great" miracle of woman's happiness.
i recommend u to learn to live with it, because if it s like what others have told u... that it's all just in ur head, which means that they just don't see it. only u. and as u probably know, everyone sees his defects much better then others do. if anyhow it's bothering u that much, there are plastic things u can add into the bra done just for it.

Answer 8

Well medically each person is born with an illproportioned body part(s)! Some people have one leg that is longer than the other, some people have buttocks cheeks that are kinda off. I know what you are talking about however with the breast thing, my breast are slightly off themselves. My mother, a couple of my aunts and other people I know! But what I say if no one else sees it then dont pay it any attention. I see the difference in mine, but no one else does, so until I get the moneyt to fix it, I try not to draw any attention to it!

Answer 9

Most women's breast differ slightly. The smaller one is the side you use the most hence it has more muscle behind it to hold it firmer. If yours are slightly off then concentrate on using your chest wall muscles more on the side of the bigger breast. It should correct itself soon. This will not make a huge difference so if there is a difference of a 1/2 cup size or more the exercises will not work for you.

Answer 10

Everyone has one breast slightly larger then the other one... i think it has to do with what side your heart is on. Don't worry though, because I realize the same thing with my breats. Listen sweetie no one has a perfect body be happy with what you have because that is what was given to you. Female bodies are a beautiful thing, no matter how big or small they are. Men believe me won't take notice of a slightly larger breast and neither will anyone else. So my advice is to learn to love your imperfections.

Answer 11

This is perfectly normal. I have the same issue. I am insecure about my size as well, one of my breasts is a 34A, the other is a 34AA.
if I think about it long enough, I start to feel weird, even though I know it's normal. See, mind over matter.
I don't know if you feel insecure about your size but if you do, TRUST ME, of all people, I am the hardest to convince. Most men don't care about breast size as long as you're proportionate.
Proportionate means how your shoulders align with your hips, how long your arms hang, how long your thigh bone is compared to your calves, etc. Anyone who has taken figure drawing can tell you this.
And to be honest, some men, SOME, do like big boobs.
Oh well, can't please them all?
How about a good heart and wisdom to go with it?
Don't let the media fool you girl! Even those celery stick looking girls have the same issues somewhere on their body.
What is perfect in this world? The sky?The dirt? The tree branches? Nothing. Not even this computer.

if you want to look as we all do, do it like this: Through what you eat, exercise, happiness.

Take Krill/Fish Oil daily, helps with heart,skin, depression, hair, etc.
Eat healthy. Lots of good fats, protein, good carbs, and fruits.
Drink plenty of water!
Get sun, vitamin K is very deficient among humans.
Meditate or pray or both!
Think in positivity.

I am sure, within days, you'll feel like the one of the most beautiful creatures on earth, imperfectly.