I have been asking myself this question since I was in my early twenties. I still check myself on it to make sure I am doing things for the right reasons. If your having difficulties in your life sometimes you have to ask yourself if its you. They say you teach people how to treat you so if you dont evaluate how you deal with people you could be kind of asking for what your getting.
2006-07-05 08:44:51
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answered by JustMe 6
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usually when people start their soul searching, which is about late teens, early twenties. For others it may be a specific life experience that triggers this. Maybe family and friends intervene on a loved one that is constantly rude. But most people who want to bettter themselves ask themselves and strive to be better when dealing with others through educating themselves and/or life mistakes in thier own lives and the lives of those around them. Just be observant, if youu see someone being treated unfairly, strive not to be like the person doing wrong. And if you are a really great person, you would help defend the injustice (as long as it doesn't involve you or others getting hurt os course ;) ).
2006-07-05 08:49:22
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answered by Enchantress 3
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You have to pay attention. If you notice that you make few friends, and that people are not nice to you, you yourselfe could be the cause, not them being evil. Also look to see if people are happy to see you or are smiling in your face. If not, then maybe you should ask yourself the question.
2006-07-05 09:02:08
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answered by mraei 2
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During my failure and bad times. When there is conflict between my mind and heart. Mind usually thinks practical things and heart always supports truth. Its difficult to know which matter is told by mind and heart. If this known then we can take right decisions.
Have a nice and good Life.
2006-07-05 08:59:28
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answered by Aniroll 2
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everyday baby girl, we all want to sound intelligent and witty. but this is who we are we might ask or answers people stupidly. but we just have to move on. there's no time to waste or dwell into the past.
2006-07-05 08:54:59
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answered by harmony 7
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