my wife is working too much to pay her sun's bill.and I feel so sorry about her.her sun is 24 years old and he take the advantage that his mother and his father are divorsed. so when he asking for somthing and his dad dos not give it to him he go to his mother so he plaing on both sides.he had very expensive tast. he wanna drive only the most expensive cars like BMW and boursh. his dad has alot of money but i think he dont like his sun's attituad and I think my wife is spoilling her sun by giving him any thing he want especialy when his dad say no to him.I resently get marreid from this women and I dont wanna talk about this to her be cause Iam living in her house. and Iam afreid if I try may be she will stand with her sun and kik me out of the house like what she did with her X-boy freind when he try to fix the situation .pleas advice me what I can do .be cause now I start warried about my futuer with her.
2006-07-05 08:30:33 · 9 answers · asked by s a 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You will have to accept her bad judgment and wait until she sees for herself she should stop spoiling her son. Don't say a word about it. Make sure you keep all your own money so she can't give that to him, also. Keep your money separate from hers. Stay away from the issues with her son. Let her handle that.
2006-07-05 08:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why should you feel sorry for her she is the one who created this not the son not much you can say now unless she realize what she is doing at age 24 it is hard undo what you have been doing for him he is depended on her its her that has to cut the ties to her son . If you say any thing you are the bad guy she needs help and so does the son good luck
2006-07-05 15:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by ladyoh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is her choice. She chose to allow her son to manipulate her. She chose to put his demands above her own well being and YOURS. You need to stay out of their mess and find someone else. She is NEVER going to get out of this mess unless SHE wants too. Sorry dude, you seem like a nice guy. :) Might wanna try using the 'check spelling' tool a little more often when using Yahoo Q & A so that people take you seriously. Peace & Blessings to you! :)
2006-07-05 15:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first recommendation would be to find your third grade teacher and smack the he!! out of him or her for failing to teach you how to spell. Next, you should figure out spell check so you don't look unintelligent anymore. If you look illiterate (that does not mean your parents weren't married), people take you as stupid. If people feel that way, they do dumb things to and around you. she will always side with her son. Tread cautiously, but at the same time, be the man around the house.
2006-07-05 15:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to determine for yourself if this is the life you want. This woman is treating her son like a spoiled baby and there is nothing you can do to stop her. She is choosing to baby her son and you have chosen to be with a woman that will always put her adult son first. If you can't talk to the woman you are living with , I don't know what you can do.
2006-07-05 15:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your son, so stay out of it. For God's sake, please spend some of your free time learning spelling and basic english grammar as your posting is barely readable with all these mistakes.
2006-07-05 15:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask for some money and learn how to spell. its son. not sun.
2006-07-05 15:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you learn how to spell and speak proper ENGLISH you wont be able to do squat!!!
2006-07-05 15:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its spelled son not sun and you shouldnt get in to it
2006-07-05 15:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by yung joc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋