Yesterday I was close to where he was (about 1000 ft away) and he decided he was too lazy to walk to where I was... I was pretty upset cause I havent seen him in 13 days! (He went to Tennessee and I obviously wanted to see him really bad) ...I was so mad I decided that i wasnt going to call him that night and I was going to completely ignore him for the whole night... Now were at the same places we were yesterday... should i call him and tell him to come see, have one of my friends call and tell him, or should i just ignore him for a few days?
2006-07-05 08:21:40 · 12 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yesterday I was close to where he was (about 1000 ft away) but i wasnt allowed to leave and he decided he was too lazy to walk to where I was... I was pretty upset cause I havent seen him in 13 days! (He went to Tennessee and I obviously wanted to see him really bad) ...I was so mad I decided that i wasnt going to call him that night and I was going to completely ignore him for the whole night... Now were at the same places we were yesterday... should i call him and tell him to come see, have one of my friends call and tell him, or should i just ignore him for a few days?
2006-07-05 08:27:18 · update #1
so middle school, lol. Why didnt you walk the 1000 ft to see him??
2006-07-05 08:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by ll_Zodiaco.Piton_ll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't perpetuate these silly games. a good relationship is built on open communication.
don't get your freinds involved in your silly games.
tell him how you felt. that you were upset he couldn't be bothered to come see you. guage his reaction, if he doesn't care he hurt you. move on to a new guy.
if he says he's sorry and genuinely means it, work on the relationship. but don't play head games by not calling or trying to ignore him.
that's just childish.
2006-07-05 15:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and tell him how you feel, then you'll see if he really wants to see you as much as you want to see him. Playing phone games isnt going to get you anywhere in your relationship. Just be honest and tell him how you feel, if he acts like a jerk after that then screw him! At least you did your part.(:
2006-07-05 15:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1 Never appear desperate.
That smacks of low self-esteem, & makes
you look lame.
If he wants to see you or talk to you, he knows where to find you. If you chase after him, he may just completely run away.
Remember, sometimes what we want is only what we think we want... until it's ours.... and then we realize we don't want it anymore.
2006-07-05 15:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore him he will think it's a break up!
Just call him and tell him how him not comming to you made you feel and talk it out!
2006-07-05 15:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should talk to him tell him how you feel that is not right. communication is the best thing in a relationship if you do not dress the problem it will just go on and on......and......
2006-07-05 15:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Pamela W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him... It's better to call and find out what's going on then to wait around and not know anything...
2006-07-05 15:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go and talk to him yourself. see whats on his mine talk to him and communicate with him. and if u go to him and hes still tryin to avoid u, u should tell him whats on your mine and make him explain to u why hes acting the way he is.
2006-07-05 15:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! Ignore him forever!
2006-07-05 15:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lee King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should want to see you as much as you want to see him so ignore him let him come to you.
2006-07-05 15:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by CUTIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋