Yesterday I was close to where he was (about 1000 ft away) and he decided he was too lazy to walk to where I was... I was pretty upset cause I havent seen him in 13 days! (He went to Tennessee and I obviously wanted to see him really bad) ...I wa sso mad I decided that i wasnt going to call him that night and I was going to completely ignore him for the whole night... Now were at the same places we were yesterday... should i call him and tell him to come see, have one of my friends call and tell him, or should i just ignore him for a few days?
2006-07-05 08:20:54 · 17 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is using you find a man or boy based on your age that will be in love with you rather than play with you like you are a toy.
Good luck.
2006-07-05 08:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in love alright(ha, ha) seriously, I would think he could have at least given you a phone call or sent a postcard with an explanation and maybe an apology, sounds like it's time to approach him and clear the air, ignoring it will only make it worse because he has hurt you, whether it was intentional or not, the damage is done and if he cares anything for you he should have at least tried to make some kind of amends.I would'nt chastize him in front of anyone or in public, you'll preserve both your dignity and his if you can get him off to the side somewhere and talk to him then. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-05 15:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OoO a toughy. I completely agree with you for being mad, I would be too. As a matter of fact I would be furious. If I were in your position though, I'd prolly call him, mention that you are wherever it is you are, and see what he says. You could hint that you'd like him to come over, something like "I'm here @ *blank*. We havent seen each other in forever...." If he is STILL being a jerk, wow. I think a good chewing out is in line....... If he can't get motivated enough to walk 1000 ft to come see you, he might need a reality check that you won't be happy and accepting when he does stuff like that.
2006-07-05 15:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by sillygoose08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, love only works as a two way street. I suggest you not play games with him and tell him what is on your mind. However you need to be honest with yourself though. If you sense he does not feel the same level of interest, it then is in your best interest to let him go. As my sister once wisely advised me, "If there is doubt, there is no doubt." I had been in relationship like this before, and believe me, at times was pure hell. Respect yourself by making sure you are matched up with someone who cares as much about you as you do about them. You may have a difficult choice you to make in the coming days, but if you can rise to the challenge then you will have jumped to the next level of self-actualization. I sincerely wish you well.
2006-07-05 15:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Times on your side. If he wants to see you, he'll make an effort. You must be fairly young. Having a friend call him, thats not going to solve anything. And why have someone speak for you ? If you feel the need, confront him yourself. But, really, just wait awhile. He'll become curious as to why your not his puppet and going after him and he'll eventually get ahold of you. If he doesn't, you've saved yourself alot of time and grief. Hope that helps and good luck...
2006-07-05 15:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Grumpy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to see you after 13 days apart and he only has about 1000 feet to walk, he isn't much of a boyfriend. Dump him and move on.
2006-07-05 15:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by DipperJapan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 days...it doesnt take a PHD to know that he is not for you hon!
Ignore him and stop concerntrating about him. Ask your friends to go out and occupy your time with activities. He has personal reasons not too see you..other than ...HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!
2006-07-05 15:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to see you , then why are you pushing. I would not have any contact with him until he makes the first move. Maybe he made a new friend while he was gone. If he wanted to see you he would do it. You'd better think about your situation.
2006-07-05 15:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously there is something wrong with him cuzz if i haven't seen my girl in 13 days i'd be all over her when i seen her. But he probably aint talkin to you cuzz he dont know if you still like him so you call him and talk to him. RIGHT NOW!
2006-07-05 15:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop letting this guy have so much control over you. Why waste your time and energy on someone who ignores you ? Ignore him today and everyday after today.
2006-07-05 15:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋