This girl wants to fight me I also want to fight her.She wants to fight me when school starts but I dont want to ruin my record as a good student.I asked her to fight out of school but she says she needs people to see who wins.HELP ME!!!
2006-07-05 08:14:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Fighting does not solve anything. Just be the bigger person and walk away.
2006-07-05 08:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl
I hear ya but the thing is fighting is not the answer. It sais a lot about you and your integrity if go fight this girl especailly ina bad way. Sadly enough she probably made enough of a hype that everyone at school knows. Try to figure this wone with dialogue instead of fists. If its about the boyfriend, then he is not worth even fighting for. Try to call of the fight. I know from experience that people will call you names and think you are afraid to fight. However you must think that months from now, no one will remember the fight and move on. She most likely wants to fight becuase that is the only way she nows how to defend herself and get a reputation. This will bite her back in the long run. I really do suggest you to cut this of in the bud and solve it like civilized people. Be willing to do some compormises if you want to reach some sort of solution. tell someone of authority if it gets out of hand. I hope this helps.
2006-07-05 08:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by helokitycolostate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting is immature way to handle any situation. If it can wait till school starts, it's nothing to fight over anyway. Also, if you have a good record as a student, she may be trying to ruin your reputation and it WILL go on your record. Colleges will know about it.
Be mature.
2006-07-05 08:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to resort to laying a finger on her. You need to get some mace or something to protect yourself if she touches you. Ignore her and her childish behavior and you need to look her in her eyes and explain to her that you won't fight her but if she even thinks about touching you with something as little as the nail on her finger you will mace her in her eyes so bad she will be blind for a week and you'll cry self defense..... end of story.
2006-07-05 08:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Keya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Nothing is more difficult than the art of maneuvering for advantageous positions.
2) Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.
3) The best victory is when the opponent surrenders of its own accord before there are any actual hostilities...It is best to win without fighting.
- Sun-tzu
2006-07-05 08:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Thom E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only fight her if she takes a swing at you first (with witnesses), that way you are only defending yourself. If there are no witnesses, then let her give you a black eye and report her to the principal, then she gets in trouble and you are scott free! Make sure she makes the first move.
2006-07-05 08:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by zharantan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you are far above that stupidity, and you don't have the time to waist on her... If she's still lookin for a fight than she will have to do it on your schedule and where you want the fight to take place!!
2006-07-05 08:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid fighting as much as possible. It's so immature! You have better things to do with your time. Let the boys do the fighting.
2006-07-05 08:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You can learn a lot from fighting. If you win or lose, it's a character builder. Better yet, tape it and upload it to the internet; you can make a mint!
2006-07-05 08:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by mutterhals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. violence never has a good side. its a lose lose situtation. and what if you do fight and something went really wrong, like someone loses teeth, breaks a finger, and if it gets bad enough, lose a life. the police could get involved and it'll be more than your good school record that gets marked.....
2006-07-05 08:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by LoLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋