no matter how much i tried to 4get that he had sex with his ex-GF behind my bac its still hurting inside because i know that he did it. used to bring it up to him like everynight but know i hve settled down but i still havent got it outta my mind so i hope somebody can help me with this question. And plus i'm 2 yung to be going through all of this stress i'm only 15!!!!
2006-07-05 08:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by courtney o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
XXXXXXXXXXXX Honey, this is something you will NEVER forget so stop beating yourself up. You may even say you'll forgive him but in the long run, you will NEVER forgive him either. Cheating is the worse possible thing a partnet can do in a realtioneship. If he is worth keeping I think you too have a lot too work on. For one, your trust. He's lucking you don't kick his *** to the curb. And you are only 15. He's inmature and will probably do it again, I'd bet on that. So I really think your best bet is to get rid of him and move on. He doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve his cheating. Good luck hun XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-05 08:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. People say once a cheater always a cheater. I gave a boyfriend another chance when I was a little older than you. It took about 7 months before I caught him again. I would move on honey, and find someone that will treat you a lot better.
2006-07-05 15:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to look at it from a different point of view if he did it once u found that dosen't mean he hasn't done it again u just know of 1 instance it really depends on how much u are attached to him if u are really attacheed then u need to work on the problem and solve thats where trust comes in if u can't trust it will be impossible to live with them cause u will have the question "whats going on behind my back"
2006-07-05 15:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get over it, then break up with him. Otherwise, realize he's just a horny teenager and will bang anything that moves. You are two young to go through this, but also too young to worry about exclusive relationships. You can always bang someone else. Maybe that would make you feel better.
2006-07-05 15:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend that hasn't cheated with his ex. Then you don't have to worry about it.
Plus, he didn't cheat with her because she's pretty or smart. He did it because it was easy. It has nothing to do with you. Either you trust him or you don't. Don't waist to much time on it. Your 15 there are plenty of trustworthy guys out there that will value you. Keep your head up
2006-07-05 15:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by ct7296 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he confessed you need to forgive him, but if you had to catch him them its kinda hard to forgive .....but in both situations you need to talk about your trust issuses with him and stop bringing it up..ppl get really aggravated when you bring past mistakes...look toward the future and move on or he'll move on...plus dont break your back worrying about this im 16 and I know from experience boys come and go but young adulthood youll neva get back so have fun and dont waste time worrying about another highschool boy...dont get too deep in highschool relationships if you are unsure you end up getting used and your heart broken
2006-07-05 15:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by scarletcutiecajunqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said,you're too young to go through this kind of stress.
You shouldn't have to worry about being cheated on anyway,and
the sad truth is if he did it once he will probably do it again. Maybe
you should think about getting a new boyfriend.
2006-07-05 15:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no excuse for that, i know that guys can be real jerks and nobody should have to put up with stuff like that. once a cheater always a cheater as the saying goes. hes going to do it again you can count on that. you should forget him, hes no good. dont do this to yourself, find a better guy. its pretty much impossible to forget about something like that, your just going to have to move on. everything takes time. if you ask me though, your too young to date and be so serious about it.
2006-07-05 15:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by malibubarbie1100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, honey, you will never forget it, even though you have obviously forgiven him for it. You are way too young and inexperienced with relationships to fret over this. If I had it to do over again, I would move on with my life and try to find a man who was actually worthy of my faithfulness. If you don't have TRUST......you really have NOTHING...best wishes to you:)
2006-07-05 15:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get it out of your mind. You should let it make you so mad that you will decide to dump his sorry *ss and get yourself out of this unnecessary pain. If he cared for you he wouldn't have done that. Your right, you are too young but nobody should put up with this. Dont waste your time feeling this way.
2006-07-05 15:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋