She doesnt like when I hang out with other people! She makes fun of me infront of her friends. She makes fun of all my friends, though she hasnt met them! But we have been best friends for 5 years! I tried telling her this and her answer is... WATEVER!
2006-07-05 07:58:40 · 26 answers · asked by Celetatious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she is ur real friend then she should not make fun of u in front of her friends, she shd respect ur feelings, i dont know whether u felt hurt when she does so. But she shouldn't do like this.
2006-07-05 08:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by ritz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be a definite no to your question. She is not your real friend. Real friends are there to support you, listen to you, and lift you up with their comments. They do not make fun of you in a vicious way, they aren't possessive, and they don't tear you down. She sounds like a really hateful person who doesn't respect you or anyone else. My advice? Ditch her and find someone who will really be a friend you can count on, but not before explaining to her that what she is doing is really hurting you. It could be a classic case of being too shallow to notice how they are treating people. Either that, or tell her that she needs some serious therapy if she thinks that's how friends treat each other.
2006-07-05 15:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by bibliophile_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like to be the center of attention no matter what! Your friend sounds like one of those people and she will always be like that! She makes fun of you to make her self look better ad she makes fun of your friends because you have other friends besides her! Just tell her that she needs to calm down with that crap and is she says whatever again, then go a few days without talking to her or hanging out with her! she will get the hint!
2006-07-05 15:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by something sweet & sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scary...My friend is just like that. She always says my other friends are weird and she never met them. She blows me off to go and hang out with another friend and then makes up some corny lie. On the phone I do all the talking and we've been best friends for 5 years. Do what I'm doing at the moment. Don't call her like you're supossed to and see what happens. It's been 3 days for me and still no call from her...I may call her and ***** at her but that's just me.
2006-07-05 15:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your so-called friend has some major issues. She doesn't like it when you hang out with other people and my guess is that she's such a, well, insert mean-spirited adjective here, that she's afraid you'll see you're better off without her. Because you are. What you describe is not a friendship. Friends don't make fun of you in cruel ways and not in front of other people to make themselves look cool. So blow this girl off and spend time with your other friends who sound more real than she does. And if she asks why you're blowing her off, just tell her, "WHATEVER."
2006-07-05 15:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant hang out with other people but she has other friends? and she makes fun of your friends? NO she is not a real FRIEND drop her and move on. friends come and go all through life and the true ones stick through thick and thin. and she fell along time ago
2006-07-05 15:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not that i am tryin to give bad advice but i think u should just drop her, i mean hse does seem like she is not really ur friend. I know it might be hard cuz yall hav been friends for a long time but wat would u rather hav, a lot of friends that r nice and dont' talk bad all the tiem and make fun of u, or a long time friend who has become a b**ch? U choose. :)
2006-07-05 15:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend just has a bad attitude plain and simple. I would advise you telling her how it makes you feel when she makes fun of you in front of other people. Also ask her what she has against your friends whom she doesn't even know! Sounds like she's also a little jealous of you haning out with other people, what's up with that?
2006-07-05 15:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is only your friend when it's convenient for her. That's not cool, if she was a true friend she would stick up for you, not make fun of you. I would tell little Miss Whatever to hit the road...you can find someone nicer out there to be your friend.
2006-07-05 15:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she sure has a hard time with herself. I can't imagine her feeling especially good about herself.
I suggest you start giving her feedback: when she is nice you comment on it - every time. Give her lots and lots of positive feedback (only when she is nice!) When she is like this leave it be. Don't comment, don't feedback her. Ignore it.
I think for some people all feedback is good feedback. What they want is that someone sees them. When you are hurt and tell her it is a moment for her when you see her. That is what she really, really wants. To be seen. So you see her, really, when she is nice and ignore her when she's not nice.
Good luck on your friendship.
2006-07-05 15:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋