2006-07-05 07:43:56 · 39 answers · asked by Tracy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX it means that he is not totally devoted to the relationship he is having with you. You deserve better. I say ditto to MOVE ON !!!!!!! XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-05 07:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It possibly means that he may not be over her. Question: Were you snooping when you "found" the e-mail or did you find it by accident. If you were snooping, then maybe you have some trust issues with you boyfriend and feel that something could potentially be going on with him and his ex. I would keep quiet about finding the e-mail if I were you. But if you start noticing him making excuses about not spending time with you and begin to catch him in lies, then would be the time for confrontation. I hope for your sake that he is over her and that you are not his "rebound" chick. Good luck.
2006-07-05 07:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by kcsilverlining77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he misses her!
And what do you mean you "found" an email that your boyfriend recently sent? To me, it sounds like you were snooping! And if your bf finds out, you are going to be in deep chit!
2006-07-05 07:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,emails fall into our laps,sounds like you have issues of trusting someone.When you love someone and marry them...doesn't mean you don't care about the person,..ie if you have children together.My ex.is a alkie and a druggie,can't live with her,but doesn't mean I don't care about her.An yes I do miss the woman I married,but that woman is never more.
2006-07-05 07:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know -some suggestions - maybe he misses her as a friend - and maybe he is just being polite after she asked him - maybe some remnant feelings - maybe he still wants to get with her -
don't worry that you were dishonest and broke his trust checking his email - confront him with it - move on if need be -
alternatively
hang on - be wary - if all is good - then no worries - then it didnt mean anything if nothing develops
just a few thoughts.... good luck
I can't imagine that its a nice place to be in - but be strong - have faith that you should be correct in your behaviour then you will never have regrets - regardless the outcome...
2006-07-05 08:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by J F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a reason for you to dump him. Come now, why be with a guy that still misses another girl? No matter how great of a guy he might be, it's not fair to string you along and no girl in the right mind wants to be second.
2006-07-05 07:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to relate to this because i have a tendency blow issues out of share even as it is composed of my bf...although, your difficulty is somewhat different because its his ex your coping with. first of all, if he changed into starting up to have emotions lower back for his ex he may commence appearing different in route of you. If he's not appearing different you shouldn't difficulty. i comprehend it quite is way less demanding reported than executed so, quite, my advice may be to communicate over with him. real he may get disillusioned that you study his texts yet when he lets you say the way you're feeling and also you communicate issues out i'm particular issues will teach for the extra acceptable. If he is going loopy because you invaded is privateness and would not enable you to get a word in, then possibly some thing is up. i'm sorry that your hurting and it really is not honest that you're stuck... i fairly changed into hoping this helped
2016-11-01 06:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, I miss you....I would think you should ask him the question and watch his face when he explains. Key sentence that you would like for him to avoid would be...."Its not what you think". If he says this, Honey, then its exactly what you think and you should proably save yourself alot of heartache and move on before he does. Don't settle for someone that doesn't respect you or your relationship. Just remember, When you lie with dogs, you'll get up with fleas. Good Luck!
2006-07-05 07:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by twanieskies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was answering a question. If you love him ehough, fight to keep him by communicating to him what you know. If he is too determined that you cannot read his Email, maybe he has something to hide and cannot be totally honest. But since you read it already, now you MUST deal with it. If you do not love him with ALL your heart, you could just move on to a man who is totally loyal to you.
2006-07-05 07:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel that he is cheating on you... That girl(his x) was once a part of his life and may be he just missed her at that moment... This does not mean that he still loves her.. He surely loves you.. Think wide.. Please dont give up the relationship just for one mail that he sent his X...
2006-07-05 07:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He misses her. They may have had a special bond, like were friends before they were a couple. The real question is why were YOU going thru his emails? How trustworthy are you being?
2006-07-05 07:47:48 · answer #11 · answered by extra_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋