I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now and when we met she was wearing a wonder bra and I thought she was hot. But now when I see her naked, all I see is a flat chested C-cup. I'm so bored. She says that she loves her body but I think it's gross. I'd kinda like to see her go up to an F or G cup but she says that would hurt her back. I told her "That's what Yoga's for!" but she thought I was kidding.
I'm pretty turned off by her selfishness AND her body. I think I like her enough to go the distance, but not when she's only got a C-cup. Other than her lack of cleavage, everything else is good enough: her butt, her smile, she's not as stupid as most women. She just says she's got too much self esteem to do plastic surgery, I think she's just too selfish. She even mentioned something about not wanting to pay for it. BUT IT'S HER BODY!!
How should I approach making her get the surgery?
2006-07-05 07:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If her body disgusts you that much, let her go! A C-cup!? My god, what is she thinking! She must be crazy, not wanting to make them bigger for you!
.............................
if i were you
i wish we could change shoes
because i would make you feel
unpretty too
i was told i was beautiful
but what does that mean
when you're never secure in relationships
because your man is always in between
my outsides look happy
but my insides are blue
feeling so ugly about myself
and it's all because of you
other women can't offer
what i have to give
while you're out having fun
my heart feels like it can't live
when you need someone to be around
i'm always there
but at those times
what happened to
which one was it?
the one with the long hair?
games people play and i still stay the same
but at the end of the day
i have myself to blame
it was i who was pretty
and you who was not
being with those other ones
just makes me available
and more hot
back out on the market
this is true indeed
while you're with no one
it is i who did succeed
and i am pretty!
-the real unpretty, by T-Boz
2006-07-05 09:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all...you sound like you are way too into how she looks instead of her mind. There is no way to convince a woman to have a unnecessary surgery just because you think a C cup is too small. You should be happy that she doesn't have a A or B cup. My brothers always say that more than a mouth full is a waist.
Oh and coming from someone with a F cup. It does hurt your back...and even more if you don't have the body makeup to hold a F cup. If you want a pole dancing stripper for a girlfriend than I suggest you go find one and leave her alone. If you like everything else about her......why is it so hard to look past her chest size. Do you realize that if you make an issue out of this and she does give in and get them for you....she will only hate you for it later. Especially if you are so damn vain to think that she wasn't good enough for you before she had them done. I say......GET OVER YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! I am sure that she can look at you and find the things that she doesn't like....but does she point them out and make you go and have surgery for it. I wouldn't think so....and if she does than you guys are made for each other.....two self centered people never happy with what they have.
2006-07-05 07:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Shelli T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope this girl dumps you and dumps you fast. How would you feel if she wanted you to get a penis enlargement?? You are judgingher by her looks and that proves just how shallow you are. By the way, a C cup is plenty big and you can't buy bigger than a D Cup at most stores. Flat chested would be A cup. This shows your ignorance. This woman - NO woman deserves you and you should be ashamed. I bet your penis is not the average - five inches - long. And what would you say if she wanted you to have surgery for a bigger one because your little man doesn't turn her on? And she's "not as stupid as most women" - well, if she stays with you, she must be retarded and an idiot. You don't deserve a woman, buster. I wish Icould talk with your woman and tellher what a jerk you are and beg her to leave you for a real man who cares about women and not just their body. You creep! You are disgusting and should be ashamed of y ourself - but I bet you are not intelligent enoughto understand what you are doing wrong. Caveman!
2006-07-05 07:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you've just taken the words "obnoxious bastard" to a whole new level.
You're calling her selfish? Think about what you've written in this post. You're asking her to change her appearance for your pleasure, even if it will hurt her physically. Why should she have to change if she loves her body?
Leave it be, man. I think it would be much more beneficial if she dumped you. She'd have the chance to find someone who would appreciate her more, AND she'd save oodles of money.
You could stand to grow up a little. A woman isn't just about big breasts or a perky butt. Look a little deeper and you may find intelligence, personality, integrity.... Want perfection? Buy a barbie doll.
2006-07-05 09:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by akatd 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"How would I go about talking a girl into getting fake boobs?"
I wouldn't even dream of being that obnoxious.
It's her body, and she loves it. Sounds like perhaps the problem is with YOU, not with her.
It really would be much easier for her to just break up with you. For sure she could find someone who would love her body exactly how it is....AND she'd save over $6000 too! I mean really...her boob size makes that big a difference to you???????
2006-07-05 07:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The nicest thing you could do for her is to cut her loose so she could get a man who deserved her.
In the meantime, you could do with growing up.
A g/f is a lot more than a set of boobs (and a pussy, for that matter).
When you're ready to relate to a female as a human being and not as a piece of meat, start dating again.
2006-07-05 07:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Flat chested C cup? You are ill. Go get yourself some help.
2006-07-05 07:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
C- cup and flat... give me a break and get alive. If you really love her and care about her you will accept her as she is no matter what is her CUP size.
2006-07-05 07:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by oriental_dr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend sounds great. Why is she with someone who puts her down? Implants interfere with the immune system.
Buy yourself a Barbie Doll if you like plastic breasts!
2006-07-05 07:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! I cant even believe what I am reading! You are such a selfish a$shole! hahahhh....kidding. That sounds like the dumbest beeyatch ever, I bet she is blonde huh? You need to tell her that if she doesnt try to please you, someone else will! Tell her how nasty and unattractive she is. Then tell her that if she doesnt save the money for the implants within the next 3 months, you are leaving her a$s! Make sure that she understands it is YOUR way or the HIGHWAY!!!! Dont even give her an option.
oriental_dr...will you please explain to me how to "get alive"???
2006-07-05 07:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by HOT A$S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋