See it as a game of tongues, as a dance where both partners caress mouth, lips and tongue with their own one, it could be light or deep, smooth and delicate or rough and invasive.. it always depends from what you like and what you don't. So if you never did it before it's a nice thing to play a little with your partner and experiment a little bit :)
how does it feel? it is a nice sensation as a kiss on the neck or a caress on our face. But you can perceive it as a strong arousal sensation that makes your blood pressure rise and make your head turn while your heart beat faster.. but again it's a personal thing so.. you have to try it for yourself
You're supposed to start it as a natural crescendo of kisses. If you feel a little shy about it just start from kisses on the cheek, on the eyes eyebrows, all over the face and then concentrating on the lips.. the mouths will look for each other and the kiss will start in a natural way, the way it is supposed to be :) just don't be tense or afraid.. let yourself be guided by the sensations of the moment..
The main suggestion i can give to you about what to avoid is: be kind to your partner and have your mouth and teeth clean and brushed, a kiss is always special and it is good respect toward your partner to be fresh-breathed and maybe mint flavoured ;) then eventually you will discover new tastes enjoying a flavoured candy before kissing
When? You know it because you "feel" it inside of you, and you cannot resist that feeling - you just HAVE to kiss him/her
How Long? A kiss is not an endurance trial, start and stop it as you like, short kisses and long ones, remember to breathe :) you can pause every now and then to look at your lover in his/her eyes
Anything else? No, just remember - never feel forced to do it.
And always always always Follow your Feelings :)
2006-07-05 08:16:56
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answered by AlienXS 4
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Well, you say you know what it is but want details. I'm not sure what "details" you want, but I'll give it a try.
In French kissing, the kiss begins like a normal kiss, that is just kissing on the lips. Instead of a quick peck, though, your lips stay connected for a bit longer. Then you part your lips slightly and your tongue protrudes between your lips and you lightly begin licking the lips of your partner. Your partner would then do the same thing and eventually you would begin thrusting your tongue into each other's mouth and flick each other's tongues. Then you would sometimes revert to just normal kissing and then go back to the tongue duels. Some people like to do it more vigorously as they become empassioned, but you can vary the intensity as you go along.
How does it feel? The first time for me was very memorable in that it felt like electricity flowing through me. Your tongue is very sensitive as it is filled with many nerve endings. That is how, for example, you can feel something like a stray piece of hair on your tongue.
Things not to do? Most people don't like to have the other person's tongue jammed down their throat until they're practically gagging on it. But, if the mood compels you, then you can do that, I suppose.
There is no "when" to do it. Unless you mean do you just start out doing it. It depends on how long you've known the other person and how often you have been kissing one another. If you're just starting out, you probably begin with normal kissing and then move on to French after a few moments.
There is no "how long" to do it. It's just like any other session of making out. If you're going to move on to actually having sex, then you would obviously take time out to begin that, but you can continue doing it as long as you both enjoy it.
Anything else? Well, I'd save it for someone special and not feel like I had to French kiss everyone. Just do what feels right and don't let anyone force you into doing it unless you're comfortable with them.
Good luck and enjoy!
2006-07-05 07:38:14
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answered by jsusna72 2
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Well my only french kissing tip is to relax and not rush it. And for goodness sake dont stick your tongue down the other persons throat. just a little gentle swishing of tongues inside each others mouth can feel great. it's scary at first and can take some time to perfect. be sure to pay attention to the other persons body actions, if the lean toward you then they are into it, if they try to pull away, then they may want you to stop. I would say the average time for a french kiss is about 10-20 seconds. and if either person has a stuffy nose then its impossible. Godd Luck!!
2006-07-05 07:25:48
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answered by froggy girl 2
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A french kiss is essentially kissing someone while touching tongues together. If done with the right person and in the right way, it can feel AMAZING! what i usually do is start by kissing normally, and then one of us usually slips our tongues into eachothers mouths a little and then we gradually move it aound more and more slowly. the only thing to make sure of is to not bite their tongue too hard and make sure the person you're kissing is comfortable with it as well. oh yeah, remember to smile after you do it as kind of nonverbal feedback to the person you are kissing to show that you enjoyed it. you will know when the time is right to kiss, and once you both feel that way, go for it! you can make it last as long as you and your partner want! french kissing is really fun and is feels even more amazing when its done with someone that you truly love!
2006-07-05 07:46:40
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answered by Anonymous
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It's when you use your tongue in a kiss. It's very easy to know when to use it and how to start it. You put your tongue about 1/2 inch into their mouth (just past the teeth) and look for theirs. If it's not there, PULL IT BACK, they don't want it!
If it is there, then just make the tongue part of the kiss, there's not need to go in there very far, if the other person is into it, theirs will be right there waiting for you. If not, it will be way back there and there is no reason to go digging around for it. Good luck.
2006-07-05 07:26:02
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answered by Anonymous
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If he/she opens her mouth before kissing the u do the same so u dont end up kissing his/her teeth; do not bit the tongue, some people find it painful..; do it when YOU want to do it; do it until you find out it's not worth it, your lips are sore, or the other person gets really anoying or messy with his/her mouth. Oh yeah, after the kiss smile, if you don't the other person might want to do it again.
2006-07-05 07:24:29
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answered by Arans K 1
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French Kiss is kissing with tongue massage as i may call it....depending on the intensity....no specific time .....and what feels good is good so just let it follow it's course
2006-07-05 07:23:26
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answered by mistyme 2
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It is an open mouthed kiss where you and your partner stick your toungues into each other's mouths. I never got any fun out of it. Another friend of mine told me it simulates sex. I never thought so. I never heard any rules on duration, be sure your mouth is clean.
2006-07-05 07:24:26
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answered by stick man 6
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Just don't put your tongue in their mouth and start moving it around VERY quickly, it should be slow and relaxed, not like some rabbit in a hole.
2006-07-05 07:22:15
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answered by Anonymous
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put ur lips to ur partners, open your mouth slightly, lick their lips just a little bit and then their lips will open and you can put ur tongue in their mouth. dont bite too hard, just i dunno, wiggle ur tongue around and do what feels good to you. you can do it as long as you want. usually if you start it, your partner will follow and then you will figure it out from there.
2006-07-05 07:23:46
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answered by Hypnotiq 3
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