4 years ago I was going out with this guy for a year but he broke up with me. Might I add that he was my first love. It hurt a lot and I did not date anyone for a year then I started going out with this guy and we have a little boy together and we have been together for 3 years. My ex would cross my mind at times mostly dreams but I would just shrug it off. Well anyways my ex just came back into my life and says he misses me and there are a lot of mixed emotions. What should I do about it? I love my boyfriend and we're happy and we do have our child together, but my ex was my first love. HELP!!
2006-07-05 07:17:12 · 2 answers · asked by Ash_s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DAMN! Don't leave or cheat on your man now. You have a child, which should be enough. Yeah, he may have been your first love, but that does not mean anything. MY first love and I were together for 1.5 years- then he broke up with me. I could not get over it for like a year! Then I started going out with another guy. Then my ex came back and said that he was sorry and wanted me back. I believed him...gave him a chance and he "changed his mind." I ended up getting back with my first love again another year later. We were together for a few months, then we broke up again. I am now with the other guy and have been for 3.5 years. I can understand why you may want to be with him, but think about the lil family you have started. If you really love your b/f now then this should not be a concern. Let your ex know that you have moved on in your life. Don’t ruin a happy home. Good luck.
2006-07-05 07:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell your ex how u feel and tell what he did really hurt u and that u finally had the strengh to move on and u did a bring a child and this world by your boyfriend and u do not want to miss with the child head by leaving the child father so the best thing i can tell u is to let ex know where he stands and teo tell him that yeah i got some feeling for u but it ca not go any farther then that because i have aliitle family now and i donot wan t to break that up because u might leave agian
2006-07-05 14:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by shante t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋