Do you regeret being homosexuals..do you feel like it's some kinda curse..and u don't like it and u hope if it just go away..?
2006-07-05 06:54:03 · 18 answers · asked by paranoid. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In the begining when I was first figuring out who I was, I wasnt too happy about it. It caused a LOT of stress and a LOT of teasing from kids at school (name calling, writing about me on bathroom walls...etc)
Now Im happy and proud of who I am. If anything, it has strengthen me as a person.
2006-07-05 09:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wolf 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
It's a blessing. So much of who I am has been defined by my experiences as a homosexual. There is a plan for everyone. Being a homosexual is a part of my plan--whether it is a means for me to focus more on my life's work without a family, or some other reason. It is far from a curse, though.
2006-07-05 13:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret being homosexual because it's who I am, If I regreted a part of myself, I would be hating myself. And to answer your curse question. No I don't think of being homosexual as a curse I think of it as me being 100 percent honest with myself. And I would never want it to go away, I would rather want people to be more open minded and more open to meeting gay people rather than just judging them based on what they hear or have read about gays.
2006-07-05 16:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>>It's a blessing.<<<
Wow ... only in our incredibly oversexed society can sexual behavior which cuts a man's life expectancy down to around 40 years old be referred to as "a blessing."
What is so "blessed" about a sexual lifestyle that puts people at a ridiculously increased risk for AIDS, anal cancer, HPV, hepatitis, and all the rest???
>>>So much of who I am has been defined by my experiences as a homosexual.<<<
I think this proves one of the biggest points that I've made about homosexuality -- which is that while we're all sinners, most of us do not build an entire lifestyle or an entire self-identity around a given sin.
It's pretty clear from this gentleman's comments, though, that his homosexuality is at the very center of his identity. And it's pretty clear that among gay people, his attitude regarding self-identity is hardly rare.
Straight people, meanwhile, generally see sexuality as just another part of life -- not something which is so encompassing and self-defining.
2006-07-05 14:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I saw how gay people were treated, I became sad about it, wondering if I would have to face that. And, indeed, I have faced it -- and fought back against a bashing, against name-calling, and against homophobia.
Other than regretting the way the culture at large treats my sisters and brothers, I have never felt it was a curse. I have never hoped it would go away. I only want to increase the love of my people, the pride of my people, and the beauty that is before me on the trail of life.
2006-07-05 14:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't regret being a homosexual. my only regret is that people can't just open their hearts and minds and let us live our lives how we choose to. i don't need to be preached to, or told that i'm a sinner, that's not going to make me turn to god nor turn me straight. i don't need to hear any hate, or that i'm disgusting, because i'm sure if anyone is aorund another person for any amount of time, you'll find something that disgusts or angers you-no matter who they are.
the world treating gays and lesbians like second class citizens is my ONLY regret.
2006-07-05 14:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Krazie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not feel cursed. Actually, I feel blessed because through this life style I've found my soul mate and one person I will grow old with. I'm the happiest I've been in YEARS!!!!
2006-07-05 15:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely love being a lesbian. Women are so beautiful, yet under-appreciated by men, and I get to show someone how special they are. It is so great to be a lesbian, I feel you get to appreciate your gender so much more. God made me this way, and I have no complaints.
2006-07-05 15:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah its a blessing really i'm happy that my girlfriend is by my side all the time even when my parents kicked me out of the house (for finding out that i am a lesbian)
2006-07-05 17:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all feel that initially. However; as you learn more about yourself and others who share your views you learn, grow, adjust and adapt. We tend to look at those pointing fingers and examine their lives to only be equally disappointed. "People who live in Glass Houses, shouldn't throw stones".
2006-07-05 15:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋