I heard that at some point in a boys life they are attracted to the same sex and they want to experiment. Well I want to experiment with one of my friends but I don't know how to come about trying to.....answers please!
2006-07-05 06:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmmmm.....do you do everything that you hear?
2006-07-05 06:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for the mean things people say on here, but I do want to let you know that experimentation with other males is not a typical thing for young guys. Of course the thoughts are very typical in boys, but to be honest they don't act on them very often as the fear of rejection and severe scrutiny from peers is more than they can bear. I suggest trying to think about other things, seeking the Lord and just being friends. Your intimate life will develop in time, don't take chances that can take away your purity until you are in a committed relationship. I don't know what else to say... please be safe and think about your future, your reputation and your spiritual self. God bless and I hope you find your way.
2006-07-05 06:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I am sure you are a wonderful person, no matter your sexual prefrences. Lots of people aren't open minded enough to understand that others can be different from themselves AND 'normal' human beings.
Here are a few online resources for you. I don't know how to go about what you want to do, I haven't ever tried. I suggest thinking it over seriously (which by asking this question you at least show you Are thinking). GOOD LUCK!!
http://www.youth-guard.org/
http://www.geocities.com/srilankangay/info1.html
http://www.outproud.org/
Live, Laugh and Love,
Mandi
2006-07-05 06:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mandi of the Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might get curious at some point in your life, but if you go ahead with the urge, that makes you gay, not experimental. A lot of people are gay and hide their past experiences as 'experimentation'. Think ahead to when you get married would you want to tell that girl you only 'experimented'? I don't think so!
2006-07-05 06:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by vinnyvino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experementing does not make you guy. Most of your awnser will be no Or that makes you guy well all those people are wrong. Before you ask your friend experement with yourself then if you want to advance then try the next step hope you find the awnser you are looking for Good Luck
2006-07-05 06:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well there is nothing wrong with experimenting u jus have to go about it in an easy matter. maybe call that friend up or chat with him on the internet. just say"hey hav u ever wanted to experiment?" and i bet he will say yea. then u ask him if he ever wanted to experiment on a guy if he says no then just drop it and say that u hav never wanted to experiment with a guy either. but if he says yes then ask him if yall cud experiment together.
2006-07-05 06:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by bre bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find a friend that's willing to experiment with you. somehow...really subtly, before you insult your homo phobic friends...you need to drop hints that you'd like to experiment sexually. don't really mention with the same sex or not. just mention that you'd like to try new things...maybe something out of the ordinary. see if you find a friend that reciprocates those feelings. then you'll be closer to finding out if you even have a friend that would like you experiment with you. otherwise, you could always go to a gay bar. there'll be lots of men willing to show you the ropes. ;)
2006-07-05 06:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men get that way!So it isn't a sin! your just curious right? well try confronting that friend because you never know, you might really like it! and no you will not be gay if you still like doing it with girls just bi. and there is no harm in liking the same sex!!!
2006-07-05 06:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sorika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is probably one of the hardest questions I seen on here.
I have no answer but some advice.
No risk no gain.
If you make advance on another male friend and it is not accepted be prepared to loose that friend
2006-07-05 06:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by ogenglishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't go there. I did and it will ruin your life. If it works the way my situation did, you will want him, he won't want you, then you will wind up in counseling for homosexuality, then you will be labeled "homosexual" the rest of your life. Then you are ruined unless you want to move to the gay red light district and take up that life, which you don't.
2006-07-05 06:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For boys that usually means that you're gay or you're bi. Problem is, if he isn't, you making any advances toward him will almost certainly change your relationship forever. Chances are, it won't go so well. You have to decide if you are willing to risk that.
2006-07-05 06:45:48 · answer #11 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋