i have been dating my bf for 6 months and i think my best friend might like him. She has a bf of her own but my friends say that she is just jealous of me, so i'm just wondering do i just need 2 confront her or do i need to stop beening her friend.
2006-07-05 06:13:42 · 18 answers · asked by pretty gurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You dont need to stop being her friend just because a boy is involved. Yes she might be jealous of you and yes maybe she does think your boyfriend is cute, but what i would suggest you doing is sitting down with her away from other distractions and people, and just tell her how you feel about the whole situation, and your boyfriend. If she is your true friend, she will understand. just dont let a boy come in between you and your best friend, you never know what will happen between you and that guy in the future, but you always are gonna need a best friend.
2006-07-05 06:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Some friends are jealous of your boyfriend getting all of your attention. If that is not it. I would ask her. If she gets mad then you know she is lying. Keep a hold on him. She will try to snag him up. I don't trust too many people. I don't care if I have known them for 7 years. Think about it. If you have a boyfriend that may one day end up being your husband, you are going to spend each day with him for the rest of your life. Not with her. You two will never be that close. That's the way I look at it.
2006-07-05 13:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop telling her you n ur boyfriends buisness n don't have them hang out together. Everyone thinks the grass is greener so she just sees how happy u r n thinks he can make that happy also. If u told her about ur sex life that is a big no no. Tell ur friends the sex sucks n he is so little bc then they wont want him at all. lol
Always remember keep your man away from ur friends always, sometimes even family lol!
Good luck!
2006-07-05 13:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you confront her again she is just going to tell you no again so keep your boyfriend and you best friend away from each other.When your with your best friend your with her and when your with you boyfriend your with him.If you keep them away from each other you wouldn't have this problem.Is your friend that type of friend that would do that to you?Only you know your friend is as a person.Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel.I would just say keep the two away from each other and if the problem continues you'll have to reevaluate your friendship.Good luck hope all goes well
2006-07-05 13:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of gals have this problem let her know you trust her and are open to whatever. Or she may not like your bf and your friends are just trying to start something because their jealous?
But before you tell her bf confront her nicely.
Just remember friends are forever boys are whatever.
2006-07-05 13:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by marlena f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked her already and she says "no". What's with the confronting? Leave her be!
One man's meat is another man's poison!!
She may be jealous, yes, but I really do not think she will want a second-hand boyfriend.
Nobody likes hand-me-downs.
2006-07-05 13:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by ND2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friends you have stirring up all this trouble. Quite being so insecure that they can mess with your head this way.
Girlfriends Rule: GFs do not Poach others BFs. If she is staying by this rule don't do anything. Besides a guy can not be lured away unless he wants to be.
2006-07-05 13:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Celtic Tejas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she is crushing on him, as long as she does not act her feelings out keep her around because that is a good friend. You cannot help who you like, but you can help the actions that go along with those feelings.
However, if they mess around, ditch both their asses because trust is crucial in any kind of relationship, and you won't have any for either of them after that.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 13:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that was like that, but I knew because she was telling everyone that the guy I was dating really liked her and not me. I just kinda worked my way away from her. It wasn't sudden, I just eased out of the friendship and when she asked me about it, I told her what I heard and told her off.
2006-07-05 13:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, after all she has been ur friend 4 7yrs. And depending on her reaction, u will know what 2 do.
2006-07-05 13:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋