i am having the time of my life with this guy i'm very much attracted to him sexual, and pyhsically.But he is married and when we have sex he does not want to use a condom. He insist that i get on birth contronl, and i tell him no just use a condom. once again he is married do you think he is trying to get me pregnant? He has three boys and i have two young boys, what should i do?
2006-07-05 06:00:27 · 36 answers · asked by envy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should keep your legs closed and stay away from married men.
And btw, he tells you to be on birth control because he doesn't want to get you pregnant. He is just having sex with you. Wake up, he doesn't care about you. You're a piece of tail. If that's what you want for yourself then keep on having an affair with him. He'll never leave his wife and three kids for you. If you think he is, you're deluding yourself.
2006-07-05 06:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you should do. Leave him alone.....because sweetie if he leaves his wife for you (remember he has three boys and he will pay child support and probably alimony) so in short all you will have is your sex life and no money and besides he will probably leave you for some one else. Anytime a person does not want to protect your life....what does that really tell you that they really don't care too much about you. Because if he really care, he will always want to protect you. Safe sex in the name of the game and don't be fool by those guys that go around getting women pregnant. You might want to do some investigating on this man. Ask yourself this questions, do you need more children at this point in your life especially by someone else man.
2006-07-05 06:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u should do is LEAVE HIM.. HES MARRIED.. geeze doesnt anyone respect the vows of marriage anymore??? If he really loved you he wouldnt be screwing you on the side while still married ... and if you had any respect for yourself u wouldnt be screwing a married man in the first place.. Blah blah blah u love him ya i know, WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE.. if he loved u he wouldnt be playing house with her and sleeping with u.. and even if he does leave his wife, HES GOING TO CHEAT ON YOU.. he's already proving he has zero respect for his own marriage vows.. what makes u so much more special then his wife.. hell she has kids with this man and shes still not special..
What are u teaching ur sons??? cause if u and him do eventually one day end up together, which i doubt cause well why would he leave he's got his cake and eatting it too.. but on the off chance that he does your boys are going to grow up one day and they are going to learn that Mommy is a home wrecker, and that its ok to cheat on your spouse, and that its ok not to respect marriage vows, cause well mommy didnt.. HELLO!
Do you and your kids a favor, get out before you get pregnant.. and if u cant get the intellegence to do that, then atleast not only make him wear a condom but get on birth control as well.. last thing u need is a child with this man cause more then likely u and the kid would be history .. then ur a single mother of 3 instead of 2..
2006-07-05 06:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never get him to leave his wife. Most married men who have affairs rarely do.(As a matter of fact,how many times has he told you he's going to leave her,and what's taking him so long to do it?). He does'nt want to use a Condom,because he simply does'nt use them. He's not trying to get you pregnant,but wants YOU to be the one to prevent it. That way he will surely BLAME YOU if you got pregnant,and the affair will be over. (Now) What you should do is the obvious. LET HIM GO!. There is no future in this relationship,only sex. You are the one he comes to when his wife is tired from working all day,taking care of his kids,and HIS selfish needs. You stroke his ego,and gives him the ablity to face his family without looking guilty. (So) the choice is yours! Continue to have a relationship with a man,just because he "bones" you harder then he does his wife,or find yourself a man,who will be willing to commit to you!.
2006-07-05 06:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the last time you asked.
He will not leave his wife for you
You are nothing but a new hole to him.
Men do not want a real relationship with a woman that would sleep with a married man.They just want to have sex with you because they know that you are easy.Like they old saying goes you are not the kind of girl a man would ever take home to mom.
2006-07-05 06:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i know when you have feelings for someone letting them go is always very hard. but if he is tryn2 get you pregnant and he already has a family: 1. hes probably not gonna leave his wife.2. he's probably not even gonna announce to anyone that he has a child out there. and 3. you n your child are gonna be left in misery and heartache. and i don't support you sleeping with a married man but if he's coming on to you then your not the only one wrong in this situation.leave him alone would be best.
2006-07-05 06:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by black barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the first sentence in your paragraph: ".....I'm very much attracted to him sexual, and physically." This is nothing but a sexual relationship & it won't amount to anything without love between the two of you. If you refuse to stop seeing him, use birth control. Don't depend on him to use it. Take care of yourself. You deserve better than a married man who cheats.
2006-07-05 06:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kat_Christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't! if you now he is married, he assumes that you are ok with being the other woman, and he will never leave his wife, ever! he is not going to use a condom 'cuz you are not forcing him too, you are just giving in, and i guarantee you that if you get pregnant, he is not going to step up, put your foot down, and don't mess with him, and if you are, then let him know that you won't sleep with him unless he wears a condom, see how he reacts! Be Strong!
2006-07-05 06:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, men are dogs, especially married ones that sleep with other women. Does it even bother you that he sleeps with another woman? If he doesn't use a condom with you, I'm sure he doesn't use one with his own wife. Just think, if she is cheating too (or he is cheating with someone other than you) you could have a world of problems down there. Just leave him alone.
2006-07-05 06:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't make a married man leave his wife, you two shouldn't be sleeping with each other. Think about the future, if he did leave her for you, would you ever trust him knowing he was cheating on his wife with you? I'm sure you can do better than this guy.
2006-07-05 06:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋