2006-07-05 05:48:13 · 9 answers · asked by enerror 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
It is not hard to be committed in love, if you are in love. Most people seems to be falling in love with love and cant tell the difference between lust and love. Women try to change the men after marriage and the men stop courting the women.
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And people please do not use relationships in Hollywood as an example, as most of them are "fly by night"
2006-07-05 06:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that people can't do it, because we all know it's possible, but I believe it's not natural. There is something very nice, and beautiful about knowing that you are the only person for your spouse or partner, but there are always doubts. 9 times out of 10 people will wander, is this as good as it gets? Is this what love is all about?
One of the reasons that question is always in the back of minds is due to Hollywood. We are constantly bombarded with images of beautiful people who fall head over heels and 1 hour and 46 minutes later any issues they might have had are now only a distant memory. The ending is a scene of two attractive people lost in a deep, passionate kiss set on a beautiful background. And then the screen goes black and we are all amazed and we think to ourselves, "That's how it should be."
But it's not. Anyone who has ever been in any type of committed, long-term relationship knows better. There are going to be days when no doubt will ever cross your mind and there there will be days when it feels as if you can't do anything right and you're walking on eggshells in the middle of Hell. That's how it is. It's not easy and anyone that has said otherwise, lied. But in the end, if you can make yourself put forth the effort, it's very, very worth it.
2006-07-05 12:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Liz Cater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not hard, its just easier to take advantage of opportunities that come along randomly than it is to think about how much you'd hurt the person you think that you're committed to, or about how much you wouldn't like that same act of uncommitted opportunity to happen to you.
2006-07-05 12:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are too committed to loving themselves
2006-07-05 12:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people have different definitions of love, and not every love is selfless. A lot of people love for the wrong reasons, and are trying to make up for what they didn't get from their parents.
2006-07-05 12:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times ppl are scared and half the time they don't no their needs from their wants. Sometimes they feel they need to be in love and it may just be what they want at that moment. when they are tired of the want, they look for another thing that will catch their interest.
2006-07-05 13:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the way of the American culture. And if you want details, ask any celebrity.
2006-07-05 12:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a great institution, but you want to be there for life?
2006-07-05 12:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just not ready and perhaps, you will never be, that's okay, too.
2006-07-05 13:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋