i'm sick of it..are you?

Question

anyone else sick of little 13, 14, 15 year old kids on here asking if they should "get back with there gf or bf" or "i think i'm in love should i have sex" ...or any one of those stupid questions. who honestly can answer that for them?? ..duh..personally i'm embarassed for them

hey chopperscott
guitarhero is kick@ss
i do play a real guitar. what do you do..play like your a hardas$ on the computer?

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Answer 1

I'm sick of the little kids that keep asking about sex personally its appalling. They aren't even old enough to be having sex let alone talking about it and i sure hope they aren't giving anyone wrong advice by answering questions they don't know
Kids go outside and play leave us grown ups to talk

Answer 2

Excuse me but that is the age group that first started all of this my dear, and they are the kids your generation will not allow to go out and play in the park or at other peoples house or be in some after school group far of abduction, or they might get sexualy hurt, or hurt playing a sport, or least of all the parents are doaping up the money and don't have money for the kids to go..

so no my dear i am not tired i even talk to a lot of them, and i am a childcare giver for 25yrs, i ahve been raising kids from 2 weeks old to 29yrs old.. and even to day i have 18 kids that i work with from 17yrs old to 29 on there lives with there parents, there friendships, their jobs and careers. I help them all on the computer, to personly,, most of them are my kids friends, friends, friends.. and the list goes on. one tells another who think they should tell others.. and before i know it i am Mother hubbord who lived in a shoe and has no time to breath.

LOL..

THE point of it is.. at least these kids are trying to find a way to fit in somewhere and this is the only place they can, What you want them to sit and play nintendo all day and night for 18hours.

maby they should just sleep there life away.. No.. Kids dont be ran away for in the end.. This women was a child just a few years ago.. now that she has been come a Adult it is said Marry popens have not had a word with her lately.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, not all kids have a parent or trusted adult they can turn to and ask questions. I'm sure not all of these are legit ones; however, it's our decision to decide on whether to answer them or not.

If I can give help to a teen or preteen that will honestly help them make a decision to abstain from sex, then I feel I've done some good. At this age, they are too young. Period. I'm sure most of these girls have older boys that are pressuring them or trying to make them believe they will be "special" if they do it. It's just wrong and they need some place to turn.

So you if you're a preteen or teen and you're wanting to know if you should have sex because you're in love...NO...not under any circumstance should you do it!

You are not old enough to know what all it means. Once you do it you will never be able to go back (but if you did do it, you can ALWAYS stop at ANY time if you want to. Just because you did it once does NOT mean you have to continue to do it!)


As I said above, more than likely it will be an older boy trying to get you to do this. Boys will tell you anything to get you to do it. You are the keeper of your body. If they tell you "you will if you love me" do NOT fall for that. You tell them, "you won't pressure me if you love me".

The same goes for oral sex. Many boys want it done to them; however, they would never think about doing it to a girl. It's because it's all about them. They want, they want, they want. They will make a girl feel really bad for not doing all kinds of things but you need to be stronger and stick to your guns. If they do leave you then they never cared for you, they only cared for what they thought they could get from you and you don't want a relationship like that. You want someone that really cares for you!

You honestly will not be sorry if you wait until you are older before having sex. Why mess with the worry of becomnig pregnant? Why worry with the worry of getting a sexually transmitted disease? All of these things can change your life forever and this is supposed to be the time of your life. You shouldn't have to be worrying about all of this stuff (did you realize that if the boy that wants to have sex with you has had sex with other girls that if you do give in and have sex, you are really having sex with all the other girls too because if he got any diseases from them, he will be giving them to you???)

Something to think about.

Please take pride in yourself and just say no!

Answer 4

A 14 year old is capable of knowing what love is. I was 14 when I fell in love for the first time and oh guess what I'm 20 now and we are still together. You don't know peoples personal lives. It all has to do with how a kid grows up. I was around adults most of my life so I took on adult responsibilities and feelings. SO BACK THE F**K OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

They are just looking to connect with other kids that may be going thru what they are going thru. What kind of questions did you ask at this age? I have 4 daughters and realize that they don't really need the answers to the questions as much as they need to be able to voice there own opinions and thoughts with out an adult telling them that they are wrong for asking these kinds of questions. You are obviously a musician. That's awesome...I'm surprised that you are not more open minded and tolerant.

Answer 6

Quite frankly, I love to give them advice on what to do so that they don't start too early and make the same mistakes i made and have the same regrets I have.

This is a forum to help people make good and wise decisions especially ones that involve sex. So no, I'm not sick of it!!!
I'm not enbarassed at all!

Answer 7

I totally agree... Do you also notice the often stupid and pointless question start at around 8 or so??? they say all we can do is report them if they have inapproiate content and age... but anything done about it???? not to my knowledge because they are still here!!!
They do however have some that are truly reaching out for some advice and those i do answer but who at that age really know about love!!!!

Answer 8

It's not just the kids! There's several "adults" in here with the same attitude. Heaven forbid we be in the same room as a decision! Also, did I miss the newsflash or is there a serious shortage of pregnancy tests around the world??

Answer 9

I'm not sick of them, it just gets tiring when you prefer to answer questions by people in your age group and with "more substance." Plus, you have to watch what you ask/answer, because of the young kids that are on here.

There should be a separate forum for preteens.

Answer 10

Yes, and what is even funnier is that this section is in a heading
"Pregnancy and Parenting" with a sub head
"Teen and Preteen"

This section isn't for teens and preteens to chat and ask random questions, it's for parents of teens and preteens to ask and answer questions!

Although there have been some serious adult-like questions from teens and I never mind answering them, as long as they are mature.

Answer 11

I can answer for them and the answer is HELL NO!! kids today think they are so grown!! It irritates the HELL out of me!! What happened to friggin barbies and hot wheels toys? If I ever mentioned the opposite sex in front of my parents at 13 yrs old, I would have my butt handed to me on a silver platter!