After a mutual break up and deciding to stay friends.. I found out that my x had actually slept with my best friend. I thought all along it had happened but she assured me it didn't. Only to find out a year later after breaking up and still remaining friends... that she did sleep with my best friend and lied to my face for 4 years!!! Now she still wants to be my friend. Should I? I feel betrayed. I NEVER lied.. always told the truth and expected the truth would be told to me. It wasn't.
2006-07-05 05:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by beenscrewed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mistakes are allowed and forgiveness should be given but at some point a person must pay for their mistakes and sometimes a friendship is the cost. She is not a friend! Not to be trusted! She will burn you again! But still act civilly towards her and know her for what she is, a "liar". Get on with your life.
2006-07-05 06:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by philmnt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you stay friends or continue a relationship with anyone who lied to you to the point where you felt betrayed?
I don't see why an ex should have any special rules or limitations.
2006-07-05 05:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not something you stated about her says something useful. not something. So she cheated on you and ought to be acquaintances? why??? Does she sense accountable that she truly tangled up and is making an attempt to make herself sense extra acceptable? Or is she sadistic and likes to thread you alongside? enable me placed it this way, are you prepared to hearken to at least something from her, mutually with relationships with different adult males? If the answer isn't any, then DONT communicate with HER. truly frankly, she sounds like one tangled up @#$*#($*@)(*#$. If she calls, i'd tell her that you do not imagine you could communicate mutually with her anymore. If she prys and keeps on speaking, which i'm guessing she'll do, repeat the word and dangle up...and not in any respect communicate mutually with her back. Delete her e mail and telephone style and bypass on to larger and extra acceptable issues. What precisely attracted you to her? ascertain that out and make positive you dont make an same mistake. So even although option C sounds truly tempting, be the bigger individual, reduce it off, bypass on, and for gods sake get a STD attempt.
2016-10-14 03:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not waste my time being friends with someone I don't trust or respect! She is not a friend if she lied to you and was intimate with your ex. I would stay away from her and let her know that I am over that relationship with my ex and over with her as a friend!
2006-07-05 05:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by latina311204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While no one is perfect, friends should always be honest with you. She betrayed you by lying and broke the trust. With a friend like that, who needs an enemy?
2006-07-05 05:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't continue to be friends with her because friendship is kinda like being in a relationship. How? Well, if she lied to you when yall were a couple then, she'll LIE to you as your friend becuase that just tells u dat she's a dishonest person who can not be TRUSTED at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-05 06:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel.. I just started to talk to an ex of mine who cheated on me. I am willing to forgive him and give him another chance to make up for his mistakes. However he knows that if he ever does it again there will never be any turning back..
2006-07-05 05:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sur, be her friend. Just know that you cannot trust her again.. It happened 4 years ago and you should let it go and move on, especially if you have moved on inyour life, and found someoen else.
2006-07-05 05:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by energy31o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally cut all ties with my ex'es. i don't wanna see them anymore. i've never had a "healthy" breakup before. but if you decide not to keep her as a friend, i think your "best friend" deserves the boot too.
2006-07-05 05:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her good bye she is not a good person and obviously doesn't think much about you
2006-07-05 05:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by miracle man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋