Why do I hat being tickled?

Question

Why does tickling make you laugh so much, but you actually dont like it?

Answer 1

Most of the ticklish people who hate to be tickled have developed the hatred because one or more people abused their trust when they tickled them in the past. In other words, if a child is tickled well past their limits for the sole enjoyment of the tickler, then there is a very high probability that the child will hate tickling for the rest of their life.

This is very unfortunate because playful tickling between two consenting people can be quite a lot of fun. The most important ingredients are: RESPECT for each other; TRUST that the person doing the playful tickling will stop when you want them to stop and will not take you past your limits without your permission; and a DESIRE to keep it FUN and ENJOYABLE for BOTH parties - not just the tickler.

In relationships involving couples, playful, erotic tickling can be incredibly fun and fulfilling, too!

As for why tickling makes people laugh so much, if you are unable to control your reactions when you are being tickled, you tense up and make yourself even more ticklish. If you try to relax and focus your eyes and attention on something else, it probably will not tickle as much - if at all.

Feel free to contact me if you have more questions.

All the best to you!

Answer 2

I hate it too and my girlfriend does it every sunday night to the point where i have to urinated and she knows right where to dig.But I really hate it but then thats her way of showing that she wants to play

Answer 3

Haha. I dont know. I just wish I was tickelish. Im not at all and I hate that! Be lucky you can be tickeled!

Answer 4

I do not know !

how about whip creamed in stead !

Answer 5

Because because just because.