What if someone had "must get married, and have kids" drilled in their head, but only found themesleves attracted (in any way) to those of the same gender? Would that make them bisexual, since they knew the "had" to have a marriage and kids.
Or would they be homosexual, as they only were getting with the oppiste gender, because they "had" too in their minds, as that had been drilled into them?
2006-07-05 05:05:14 · 9 answers · asked by ♣ ♣ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Having this thought drilled into your head does not change who you are. It is a form of peer pressure and or brain washing. If you have the emotional; and physical attraction to the same sex and not to the opposite sex than you are gay. You can marry, have kids, be in the military, all this and more. It doesn't change who you are inside.
I know this because I was married, kids and in the military. I had all that drilled into my head. It took me till I was 32 years old to believe in myself. To come out and make myself happy. I was not happy before I was living a lie.
The end result is everyone loves me now. Including those like my ex-wife. For I am honest and open with them. They respect me. Most of all I am now as God made me. I know he loves me.
2006-07-05 05:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
Many women have had sex with a man and even had a marriage without getting any sexual fulfilment themselves. This was particularly common in older gay people many of whom married due to family pressure and then regretted it all their lives, often living seperate 'secret' lives.
If a person is only attracted to the same sex, they are gay or lesbian.
2006-07-05 09:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Trish D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would be delusional. They'd likely depress their spouses & family and get depressed themselves.
They would be homosexual but living a lie.
If they were truly Bisexual, they would be happy to be married; finding their spouse to be attractive and desirable to them. They would still maybe hanker after (though not necessarily act on the desire for) a same sex partnership.
2006-07-05 05:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would be homosexual, and in the closet.
I'm sorry, but necessity does not bisexuality or heterosexuality make.
If you need to talk, email me.
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2006-07-05 05:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always get that drilled into my head by my grandparents, but the thing is im attracted to females, especially girls in my school.
i wish i could tell them i like girls more than boys but they will probably die of shock lol, im happy with who i am & im happy to be a lesbian.
2006-07-05 23:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are describing is a scenerio most gay people have lived with their whole lives....only recently has it become able for them to stop having to pretend to be straight.
2006-07-05 06:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder why two gay men and two gay women don't get together, do 2 heterosexual marriages, have children, but stay gay so its like an extended gay family...
2006-07-05 06:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by How Much? How Much???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you homosexual, is your choice of who you are with sexually.
2006-07-05 05:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Blonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gay your gay just get on with it
2006-07-05 05:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by TAFF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋