2006-07-05 04:21:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes, painful physically and emotionally too. If she waits til she gets married, the emotional pain will be less, if there even is any.
2006-07-05 04:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to rush into having sex. You have been smart enough to wait this long you do not want to waste a lifelong experience with the wrong guy. It should and can be a very special time for you. If you are emotionally attached to a man the pain will be minimal. Good luck.
2006-07-05 04:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by accesscard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean loosing your virginity, it hurts like hell, but if you do it with the right person it is WORTH EVERY PAINFUL MINUTE OF IT. It will hurt at first, but you have to remember that your vagina is tryna adjust to this thing that is going inside of it. If the guy does it right the pain shouldn't be that much and by doing it right I mean taking his time. My first time was amazing, he took his time; he entered and stopped for a while giving me time to relax and he'd kiss me, play with my breasts and then he'd push some more. He kept on doing this til he finally got all the way in and then we just went crazy after that. You get acclimated to the pain. Ater the first two or three times, there is no more pain to think about, just intense pleasure.
If you mean peforming surgery to get back your virginity. Then I think that's gonna hurt like hell, but that is what anesthetics are for.
2006-07-05 04:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young are you? Not trying to be mean or anything. Sex though for the first couple of times will hurt until you get stretched out. Your vagina is like rubber the more you pull it apart the easier it is. Also make sure that you love the guy, cause you want your fist guy to be well nice to you. Good luck.
2006-07-05 04:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
disvirgin??? nice language... yes young lady, it is very painful for little girls who havent matured yet, and by mature i mean 18-22 so before your boyfriend wants to deflower you, i'd grow up a little
2006-07-05 04:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Cliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be painful UNLESS your partner and you know what you are doing. Losing my virginity didn't hurt. I was waiting for the pain to come but it never did. If your man has u so wired that you don't have time to think about the pain, you'll never feel him break through. That's only IF he knows what he's doing.
2006-07-11 07:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some the first time is a little painful.
2006-07-05 04:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. It's all according 2 how gentle ur mate is. It would b very sweet if he takes his time & does it right. If he is not a virgin as well, he will know what 2 do.
2006-07-05 04:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the first time can hurt depending on how you partner does it but make sure it is with someone that you love and loves you there are lots of guys out there that will say they love you just so they can get your vigirty it's like so trophy to them good luck
2006-07-05 20:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Emsdal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon how she goes about it. Get a decent fella in to do the job with sensitivity and there should be no problem.
2006-07-05 04:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dadams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋