He's soo great... And I think he only likes at me as a friend, but i don't know. He's one of those ppl who bottle up all their emotions...he's afraid to tell ppl (even his best friends) how he feels. And I'm scared to tell him how i feel....
2006-07-05 04:20:13 · 19 answers · asked by yo. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think u should tell him he may feel the same way and just too bottled up to tell you. if he is ur true friend everything will be ok.
2006-07-05 04:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by cherry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well - this is always a tough situation - it just comes down to your feelings - which is stronger - the attraction and love you feel for him as "boyfriend" material - or the relationship you have built as friends? How long have you been friends? Do you feel that you know each other well enough and are close enough that if he does not feel the same way, you can just talk it out and still be friends? Or is this a relatively new friendship where it might freak him out and send him on his way? If he is so great - then consider this - would you rather have years of having him at your side as a no-strings attached, loyal friend - VS- a possible love relationship that could end bitterly within weeks, months etc., and he is then gone out of your life forever? Think it out completely, dint act on impulse!!! You might regret it!!
2006-07-05 11:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by lovell1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, been there done that, I honestly think that if you are truly in love with him, you should tell him. The downside is, if he doesn't feel the same way, your relationship may never be the same. The good part will be, if he feels the same then you get to start a brand new relationship and all relationships grow from friendship. If he can't return the same feelings for you, at least you know where you stand. Its hard being in love with someone and not being able to express your feelings, its totally frustrating, believe me.
From my own personal experiences..................when the same thing happened to me, I found myself unintentionally sabotaging all of his relationships with other women.
Just tell him....you will feel a lot better
2006-07-05 11:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him then give a shot trust me i did the same he was one of my best friend and i got the courage to ask him out and now we've been going out for 4 months. And if ur friend says no then you'll always know that u tried and didn't end up 5-10 years later wondering what would gone different in ur life if u had. Also they say "It's better to tried to love than to have never have loved at all"
2006-07-05 11:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by yankees_chick_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You know it only hurts you if you never know. I was with my best friend and then I moved and messed it up. But it was the best thing we could have ever done. I also thought that he was only going to want to be my best friend and that was all but no, he was just to shy to say how he really felt until I fessed up. You dont know until you ask. And think about it, If he says no its not there make it as something else like I was just testing you on a guy I really like and was trying to see how I would react if he said the same thing.
2006-07-05 11:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to decide if it is worth the risk? If something goes wrong and you and him get mad at each other there goes the friendship. And you need to find out how he feels. If he is shy and doesn't speak about his feelings then you need to get a way for him to open up to you. If you are his best friend he should be able to tell you anything.
2006-07-05 11:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you like a friend and that friend might just think of you as FRIENDS but its better to tell him that you feel something more than friends between you and him but that you were wondering if he did , too...If this doesn't work i don't know what will really work but expressing your feelings might be the best way of him knowing and maybe something else occuring...GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-07-05 11:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by QuEEnBofNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! this is hard question to answer..but let me tell u this..i had a really good guy friend too...and after 5 years of knowing each other we began to realize that we really liked each other so we dated...then something went wrong and we broke up..then we didnt talk much..and we certainly werent friends anymore..and it hurt because i almost lost him forever. and now we're never gonna be the same....i lots my best friend..so its up to u what u do but be careful and take care..byezz
2006-07-05 11:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by teeny* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are best friends like you think you are then the realationship can handle any thing so go ahead and tell him you really have nothen to loose. Best Frends will always be frends no matter what :):):) GOOD LUCK
2006-07-05 11:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by J~me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a month cuz it could just be a crush and you don't want to ruin a friendship over somethng your not sure of and if you still feel this way in a month or so then tell him definately
2006-07-05 11:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋