i wanna use toys and stuff but he's put off by them, and i wanna do different positions but we do the same position every time! HELP!
2006-07-05 04:16:30 · 21 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Explain to him that while he may not be willing to expand his sex life with you in ways that YOU want and need he should understand that this will ultimately affect your overall relationship. Tell him needs to decide if he loves you enough to be more open minded with you about this issue because you ARE going to use your toys and if you can't find complete sexual satisfaction with him as your lover and partner then it's very likely you will feel the relationship is not one that will last.
2006-07-05 04:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try couples counseling or maybe just slowly initiate things, like turning in a different position during. The guy might be scared.
2006-07-05 11:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by korr1121 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend should start out by having a picnic in the nude, by candle light , in your living room . If you have children at home put them to bed early or send them off to the grandparents house for the night . Start your picnic off with some warm honey, it will work wonders .
2006-07-05 12:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by LadyRazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for u im a very sexual person but u need to talk to ur bf and tell him u are not enjoyin sex anymore it is more than likely he is put off by the thought of using toys because he thinks u shouldnt need them if u have him (its a man thing lol) my bf was the same but when i stopped fakin and sat and told him we now have a fantastic sex life xxxcommunication is the key to everything !!!!
2006-07-05 11:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by stacie lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be kidding .. You have a prude for a boyfriend then, Its usually the girl that doesnt want to do things.
What else are you interested in doing :>)
2006-07-05 11:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by twism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to tell him your ideas. Tell him doing different things keeps the sex life alive. Even if he doesn't want use the toys tell him or show him how it could make you feel.
Good luck.
2006-07-05 11:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him relaxed with a massage and then say that you want to take control in bed and tie him up so you can do anything you want
2006-07-05 11:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Little Miss Naughty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you like. If he isn't at least willing to try things you want, then why stay with him? If he's close minded in that aspect he will be in others.
2006-07-05 11:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go into the bedroom by yourself and start doing your thing with your toys. Then call him into the bedroom with a sexual tone. He will like it, trust me!
2006-07-05 11:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by jayhawk1124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how unhappy you are with his sexual performance. Be spontaneous! Try things that you know he'd like. Find out what his fantasies are and cater to his needs, also tell him what your fantasies are and make sure that he caters to your needs as well.
2006-07-05 11:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋