I am married, but was with a woman for 4 yrs. prior. I don't even know if this makes me bisexual....
2006-07-05 04:08:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I, unlike a few others whose replies I read, noticed that you have already defined yourself as to what you feel you are...which happens to be bisexual...When you ask others if that makes you a freak, you've opened the door to alot of "straight-laced missionary style" AND/OR religious people who would obviously love to shove their bibles, along with their opinions down your throat! Which, in my observation, is not the christian thing to do! Judge not, lest ye be judged!
You will get a better non-biased opinion if you posted specifically in a G,L,Bi message board!
So, as for my OPINION...
you are not a freak, there is nothing wrong with you...you are one of the lucky few who is able to feel an emotional and sexual attraction to the same sex, as well as the opposite sex! As for being married...it obviously goes without saying...you happen to be a woman, who happens to love a man, who is also equally capable of loving a woman and enjoying her intimately....
I suggest you read the replies I have made to others posts, which seem, more often than not, to be very similar to your own! I think I make a pretty good statement for us bisexual women...whom alot of others on here seem to support!
I have been married for 15 yrs to a man I love, but I still enjoy being with a woman. It's nice that I have a husband that I can share those experiences with, who is open enough to let me be me!
And it just so happens that there are MANY other things one can involve themselves in and define themselves as being a FREAK!
And...so freakin' what if you fall into that category? It doesn't mean that you have sex with animals.....although some would say you were a freak if you did....( i would say that makes you seriously disturbed and severely warped mentally!)
Its what you define it as...!
If I must categorize myself........I am a freak, who just happens to be bisexual...LOL......which to me, means, that although I am capable of having a "normal" satisfying sex life, I am equally capable of exploring, practicing, and YES, ENJOYING what others would consider deviant practices when it comes to sex. This doesn't mean I screw dogs, or drink blood or anything seriously warped.....this means I have found that I enjoy SOME tabboo sex practices.
And I AM NOT ALONE in my interest in them!
I would do them with a man, or a woman, (if they also desired ) or even both at the same time....so, I like being tied up once in awhile, I like being spanked once in awhile, I like leather and latex and like it rough sometimes.....if that makes me a freak, then, a freak I am...BUT just because I am "wild" and bisexual.....does not make me a freakin PERVERT!
Accept yourself for who you are, don't let someone else stuff you into a category.....define for yourself who you are, and what you feel, and do what makes you happy and sexually fulfilled......and as long as you aren't hurting anyone who doesn't wish to be hurt....don't worry about anyone elses opinion or about this "freak" thing anymore!
2006-07-05 05:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would it matter to? We all make our decisions based on whatever makes each of us tick. I wouldn't say it makes you a freak. It's possible you tried something and when it was over, the whole thing was over for you. Do you still have attractions to the same sex? Do you still have sexual/emotional relationships with the same sex? If the answer is yes, then you may be bisexual, but if you don't have anything more than a curiosity or just above that, then I wouldn't say your bisexual. Being in a same sex relationship and then following it up with a switch doesn't necessarily make you gay/bisexual. I've known a few that did this and for the rest of the time I've known them, they've stayed straight, but I've heard of others who married but continued their previous lifestyle in its dual mode.
Now, if you did strange things with animals wearing leather, I might put you in the freak department... LOL. Otherwise, nah... not a freak.
2006-07-05 04:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't make you a freak! Do you still crave women? If so, then yes your still bisexual.
In my opinion there's nothing wrong with being bisexual! To each their own!
2006-07-05 04:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by jab92593 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First there is nothing wrong with being a freak. I'm proud of being a freak...and freak can be defined in many ways. I wouldn't compare being bisexual to being freaky. I'd say you have or had bi-sexual tendencies. Why define it, just let it be.
2006-07-05 04:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A freak-no. Confused-yes
2006-07-05 04:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are bisexual and yes you are a freak but that's a damn good thing do you want another partner
2006-07-05 04:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Moody1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like men and women you are considered bisexual. It doesn't make you a freak. It makes you....you.
2006-07-05 04:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a freak. Perhaps 4 years ago, you were confused by your sexuality. How do you feel now? Judging from what you wrote, you're still basically a newlywed. Give it time.
2006-07-05 04:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by kath68142 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no!!!then Id be a freak and I am not.and if someone called my 23 daughter a freak I dont think very nice things would come out of my mouth ..because she is married to a women..
answer is NO
2006-07-05 04:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by myangel_101211 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only makes you a freak if you tell everyone on the world wide web about it.
2006-07-05 04:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋