when i get into my college i love a girl and immedietly propose to her. at that time she neglet me. after 2 years she propose me and we both live happy... after 2 years when the college is over she told me that she got only infactuvation not a true love and stop every thing from me... but i cant able to forget her... day by day i get more feelings and i cry at night... she is inside my eyes and not allow me to sleep... i come to know thru my friends that she is going to get marry... wht should i do now... but one time she really loves me but now i dont know what make changes to her!!! pplease help me...
2006-07-05 04:01:54 · 28 answers · asked by CHOCKLET 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go see a therapist
get on anti-depressants
get a better life
she wasnt the one for you.
good luck.
2006-07-05 04:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry it has not worked out between the two of you.
But lingering and holding on to feelings for her when you know she went another direction will only harm you more.
Love is something that takes time. I am sure she did love you and still does but she decided spend her life with someone else. You cannot change this reality.
Take care of your emotions. Write about how you feel, talk to a good friend about these feelings. Don't keep these feelings inside you.It takes time to forget someone....sometimes we never forget. However, thinking too much about it will stop you from meeting new people or being in new situations. Dont let these emotions control your life.
2006-07-05 04:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Life is Wonderful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has chosen what she wants the best thing for you to do is forget that you ever knew her and move on go to some clubs get out of the house and stop looking for answers on line go to parties, clubs and other places to meet new woman I'm sure you will find someone that you want to marry with
2006-07-05 04:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to say, but there is nothing you can do. Just be happy this girl was honest with you and told you exactly how she was feeling. She's obviously happy right now if she's getting married. You have to get on with your life and try to forget about her. Someone else will come along that you will be much happier with....someone who truly loves you!! Just hang in......
2006-07-05 04:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a blessing in disguise. As hard as it is, forget about her and your true love will come. It's pointless and emotionally draining loving someone who doesn't love you. Time heals everything, in due time you will be over her, and ready to date again. Good luck!!
2006-07-05 04:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really love her than you should call her and ask her to meet you somewhere and let her know how you feel. If she does not return your affections than it is time for you to move on. In time, I am sure you will find someone else to love
2006-07-05 04:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie... I am sorry but you have to let her go for now..... believe it or not there will be other people that you will fall in love with... I didn't think so but I did too...
If you need to talk to just im me on the s/n I showed up
2006-07-05 04:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by prinsisss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to accept a crappy situation and move on. There will be someone who loves you and will stick by you. It will get easier for you, but you will never change her. you really just have to move on, even though it is really tough right now, it is for the best.
2006-07-05 04:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by nat_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes gone, you need to let her go. If she is marrying someone else, she must no longer love you regardless! Find yourself another woman that tickles your fancy, she will disappear quickly.
2006-07-05 04:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to move on. or she just needs her space, she's probably thinking that you are moving to fast for her and plus y'all are in collage or fresh out of collage you don't want to give your self to one person right away you need to explore because if you don't your going to be in a whole lot of sh*t your going to get Bord with that person and then your going to cheat so be cool about it you never know she might just come back to you
good luck
2006-07-05 04:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by divapoopylou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋