her a tour. Was it ok for him to do this without asking me first?
2006-07-05 03:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Barbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, he should have talked to you first. I would be very suspicious of his motives in wanting to help some waitress he had met while away on business.
2006-07-05 04:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably just him being friendly. I don't see too much to cause concern since he included you in on it. Now if it was just him giving the tour, I'd would think something was up. Just remember to keep your nose up in the air to see if anything smells funny. Then ask not to do this again w/o asking you first. let him know that it bothers you.
2006-07-05 04:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oy my that is a bad scenario. i would be very upset and tell your man so. i wouldnot trust that at all. he met her while away. What else happened? I would tell him no and be firm about it. She is a stranger from out of town. Did he suggest she sleep in your home too. Keep your guard up if she does come around. You can never trust another woman around your man. I have been there and done that and got burned bad. Good luck!!
2006-07-05 04:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by HOTCHERRY00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate waitresses who latch onto married men in hopes of bettering themselves. Seems there's one in every greasy spoon in the USA. I'd give her a tour of the back of my hand, and the jerk who invited her also. (unless she's an 80 year old grandmother named Madge) I bet she's Trixy, or Bambi though. Good luck, don't swallow tripe
2006-07-05 04:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the first time talk too him about it he my have thought it to be ok and trying to do what he said if you cant trust him maybe he cant trust you at least you know it not hidden
2006-07-05 04:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by John K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have asked you first. In saying that, it's not really that big of a deal. Maybe he was just being polite?
2006-07-05 04:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it was not okay. I think he likes her. Tell him that she can get a damn tour guide if she wants, but not him. I would be very very mad. And if he ever sees her again you will kick her ***
2006-07-05 04:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by beantheredonethat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. There may be circumstances that would make it okay (like if she's 75 maybe) but I would be pretty upset if it were me.
2006-07-05 04:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what bedroom he he going to give her a tour of ,, open your eyes
2006-07-05 04:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Def should have mentioned it to you first.
2006-07-05 04:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋