Why does my wife get angry about....?

Question

My wife gets angry about everything! Last night I feel asleep on the couch and she was mad. I had to drag it out of her. Then just about everynight she dreams that I die in a car wreck. Is this normal? Or is she wishing I would really get in an accident?

Answer 1

for some reason your wife is unhappy.

Evaluate the options:
1. do you give her enough love.. do you cuddle her at night? do you do small things for her? Do you never ignore her or seem you don't need her??

2. Could she have to much on her shoulders and she is starting to feel the responsibility is too much? Do you help her with her responsibilities? Could she resent you for some reason that you are lazy and the only thing she has to do is serve you??

3. When last time did you buy her a gift? Did you maybe forget about some anniversary or her birthday? Did you forget about something you have promised her??

4. Do you smell and walk around unwashed?

5. Do you drive a nice car when she is driving something old?? which always breaks?

6. Are you showing her sexual attention or could she suspect you of wrong doing??

7. Do you have kids etc... are you doing your 50% share to help her?

8. Is there too little money at home and she resent you that you dont ear enough.. as she knows your potential and she feels you lazy?

9. Do you go out on dates with your wife? do you schedule some special time with her, going to movies etc?? Do you know how other husbands, especially your wifes friend treat them ??

10. How long ago did you go for holliday or planned one ahead?? alone, romatic without kids

11. Do you spend too much time at bars or with your guy friends or in front of TV ignoring your wife..??

12. Could it be that she is unwell, sick and you did not notices??

13. Could it be that she bought new dress or had a new hair cut and you just did not bother to notice??

14. Could it be possible that she is pragnent and her hormones are going crazy??

15. Could it be that every time she is talking to you you just dont bother to lissen.

16. and 10000 ponits more.

So now, before you think she wants you dead (if she wanted you dead believe me she would have not tell you that!!) just giver a bit more love and affection... PLEASE..

Take her out on a suprise date, force yourself to help her or do the dishes.. Trust me, it is not worth it getting divorce, I am convinced you not a quiter!!


Most of all, book yourself for married councelling and BIG GOOD LUCK

acha!! if she dreams that you die in car accident, did you think that maybe she is angry with you as she really really loves you and she does not want to loose you???



OK, this is for your WIFE.. read what might she go through..

Die

To dream that you die in your dream, symbolizes inner changes, transformation, self-discovery and positive development that is happening within you or in your life. Although such a dreams may bring about feelings of fear and anxiety, it is no cause for alarm and is often considered a positive symbol. Dreams of experiencing your own death usually means that big changes are ahead for you. You are moving on to new beginnings and leaving the past behind. These changes does not necessarily imply a negative turn of events. Metaphorically, dying can be seen as an end or a termination to your old ways and habits. So, dying does not always mean a physical death, but an ending of something.

On a negative note, to dream that you die may represent involvement in deeply painful relationships or unhealthy, destructive behaviors. You may feeling depressed or feel strangled by a situation or person in your waking life. Perhaps your mind is preoccupied with someone who is terminally ill or dying. Alternatively, you may be trying to get out of some obligation, responsibility or other situation.

To see someone dying in your dream, signifies that your feelings for that person are dead or that a significant change/loss is occurring in your relationship with that person. Alternatively, you may want to repress that aspect of yourself that is represented by the dying person.


ITS TIME TO WORK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Answer 2

It seems that there is something deeper going on inside with your wife. What it sounds like is fear. I know your thinking what is she afarid of, but only she knows this and could tell you. Try sitting her down or taking her out somewhere where the both of you can have a peaceful setting. Ask her what's bothering her, tell her your asking because you love her. Try to get to the bottom of what's bothering her. I don't think she wants you to get in a car accident, I think something is bothering her. Until you two sit down and talk about this you will never know what's on her mind. From there you can get an idea of things and do what's best. I hope everything works out for you!!!

Answer 3

First I would check out if she opened a life insurance policy out on you recently. I'm just kidding, you sound like you need a little humor in your life. In my case when my husband does not come to bed I am also offended he should not sleep on the couch our bed is our sanctuary for our marriage. Maybe this i how your wife feel's. The couch is saved for fights and then you make up in bed right. Maybe your wife has some other reason. maybe she thinks you are unfaithful or something. Why else do you not want to sleep next to her. Just reassure her and show her you love her and make the bedroom your sanctuary for your marriage. You should make love to your wife in the bedroom not sleep on the couch. Try music and canles too make it special everynight.

Answer 4

She might be stressed out about something. Try talking to her but be very nice and loving. If she still is angry don't get mad but just treat her to some nice treats, buy her a necklace make her dinner. If she still is angry she might not be intrested in you anymore. Try thinking back, did you miss any anneversiarys, birthday, holidays, special days. If you forgot to buy a gift on any of these special days she might be upset and mad.. Good luck!

Answer 5

It sounds like you married a girl, not a woman. Go to the book store and buy her a book called The Proper Care and Feeding Of Husbands and tell her if she wants to save her marriage she will read it. It would also do you some good to read it, because you will understand more about a woman's thought process and realize that it is not all your fault, and you are not the terrible man she makes you feel like. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Your wife may possibly be angry because perhaps she feels unloved or that maybe you do not show her enough positive attention. Another reason could be sexual frustration...I do not think that she wants you to die. The car wreck dream is figurative.

Answer 7

Sometimes we dream of things like that when we feel like you distant. Have you been distant? Maybe somethings bothering her, you should dedicate a night for a romantic evening just to reassure her.

I doubt that she wishes you were in an accident.

Answer 8

Wow...I would hope your wife wouldn't want your life at risk. My guess is that her subconscious is causing her to dream about you in harm because of her hostile feelings toward you during the day. The best thing is to talk about it, and her dreams should change once she goes to bed in a better mood.

Answer 9

Ok - this is just my interpretation of the situation - but it sounds to me like your wife feels that she is not getting enough time and/or attention from you - and she somehow has it in her head that you are soon going to be gone...does she have reason to suspect you might have another relationship?

Answer 10

Could be that she has hormonal issues. Try taking her out and talking to her about it. Communication is key and if that doesn't work seek professional counselling. This sounds like something that needs to be worked out quickly. All the best!