Can You Help ME????

Question

Im 15 years old and I'm Pregnant how do I tell my parents? Plus the dude Im pregnant by s 22 and my parents think that he is 17! What should I do??

Answer 1

Honesty is the best policy.

Answer 2

This is called cause and effect and happens to more people your age than it should. First sit down with your mom. Tell her you need to talk to her about something and you want to know her advice. Tell her that you are pregnant. That is a big shock right there. She'll probably be angry and probably pretty upset. But because she is your mom, she'll probably help you express this to your Dad. After the intial shock comes, there will be lots of questions and I'm sure the age question will be asked. Be Honest! Lying will only make the situation more difficult. Absortion is killing an innocent child. Just be ready for all the consequences that come from this situaion. Hang in there. You aren't the first teen it's happened too and I'm sure you won't be the last. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

I am so sorry this has happened to you. You must be terrified right about now. I know it is hard but you should tell your parents. I would tell your partner first and see what he has to say about the situation. I know you don't want to get yourself and him in trouble, but if you were having unprotected sex with him both of you know what could have happened. Was he in on the fact that of telling your parents that he was just 17 years old? If so, then he knew of the consequences it would bring if it was ever found out and you should not feel guilty telling your parents. If you two truly love each other, he would do the honorable thing and tell your parents too.

Answer 4

Pregnancy is a huge thing before u tell anyone u need to feel liek u understand whats goin on in ur head to u wont to keep the baby or do u eont to abort it u shoulnt let anyone make the dission for u when u have made the dissio n then u sshould tell ur guy ur opregnant for ---- -- he may wont to change woteva disison u made although he helped u make the baby its u that has to deal with the after thought of wot u do -- so when u tell him make sure he knows ur not joking -- i think totel ur parents u should right a letter coz if they are strict parents u dont have to see there first impresion u might see them after they calmed down after reading it-- i hope that helped email me to tell me what happens -- i hoepd that helepd email me anytime and IM me about anyhing-- [e-mail] -- my name is stephanie and im 15 too

Answer 5

He should get an attorney right away. He'll probably be charged with statutory rape, as he should be. NO 22 yr old man should be touching a 15 yr old girl!

Sit both of your parents down, and talk to them. They will help you discuss your options, on what to do. Let them absorb the information, then after a couple of days, talk about it again.

I highly suggest that you see a counselor, or go to a counseling center for teen pregnancy.

Answer 6

You need to just sit down and tell them immediately. And if they are the way any decent and law abiding parents should be, they should have him arrested. What he did is a felony, comparable with child molesting. I believe it is called statutory rape in most states. Both he and you should know better, especially him since he is an adult and you are a minor. You just need to come out and tell your parents as soon as possible. Yes they'll be a bit upset with you about being pregnant and mad at you for lying about his age, but the sooner you do it the better.

Answer 7

Of course you will have to tell your parents. This will not go away any time soon. If you are afraid of what they may say or do, get another family member you trust who is usually neutral in family business. An aunt, grandmother, cousin, and if none seem helpful, a teacher, a church member.

You're not alone, you just need to reach out because there are people in your life that will be willing to help. Ask for help.

Answer 8

are you close to your parents? talk to them, you shouldnt have lied about his age, and he should not be having sexual relations or any kind of relations with a 15 year old girl, you might feel like your all grown up, which, now that your pregnant, you will have to be, but a 22 year old should have known better. Talk to your parents, one at a time or together, but dont put it off, this wont go away, they might be mad as hell at first, but you are their daughter, they love you, talk to them

Answer 9

Get an abortion and that 22 year old needs to be put in jail. What in the hell is a 22 year old doing with a child? Is he that much of a loser

Answer 10

I was 18 when I became pregnant and I was terrified to tell my parents. I went to my step-mom first as she was the easiest to talk to. You're gonna have to tell them, esp if you want to keep the baby.
Just sit them down and talk to them and let them know. Be an adult about it. As for your bf, your parents can decide to press charges against him and he will get in trouble. If your parents don't press charges then he should be fine.
You need to think about your options, a baby is forever, you never stop being their mom. You really need to think about if you're ready for that responsibility. You have several options, adoption aborition and then keeping the baby. If you're religious, pray about what to do. Don't only think about yourself, think about the life of your unborn child. Also, don't get stuck in the same boat I did. My baby's daddy hit the road as soon as I said I was pregnant.
Your parents will probably be mad, but if they are good parents they will be there for you and support you. You'll need them and their support in what ever you decide.
I wish you good luck in whatever you decide.

Answer 11

It obviously depends upon the kind of relationship you have with your parents. It sounds like you have already lied about your boyfriend's age. If you respect your parents at all, you need to tell them everything ASAP. Please don't compound earlier lies by witholding something as life altering as this. A baby is for life and at your age, parents can be the only thing you can count on. Trust them and share your problem.