Sure. People do all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons. But, the bottom line in these sorts of relationships is honesty. Typically, a lesbian who is married to a man who enters these sorts of relationships is trying to have her cake and eat it too. And, usually, everyone gets hurt somewhere in the mix. The thing is that where all parties are honest about what they want out of the situation and nobody is gratuitously using another party, everyone is of equal bargaining power and the adults are free to do as they please.
More power to you! Life is short. Live well, but live honestly.
2006-07-05 10:04:29
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answered by no please 2
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LOL -- as if she'd want to! Girl, you are mixed up. Let me try to sort you out.
I'm a lesbian. I'm a woman in love with a woman who is in love with a woman (me :)! I think that pretty much says it all, so far as we lesbians go. Women loving women.
LOL, I do not know why I answer questions like these.
C'mon, tell Muffin the truth. You're cruising, right? Looking to swing a little, maybe spice up the old routine? (Wink, wink.)
Lesbian in a MFF 3 way? -- hoo-hoo!!! Honey, you are so not gay, and the way you modified your question - "For a LTR, between the wife as well as the husband!!"
Well, who else would it be "between"...?
"The wife 'as well as the husband?'" ???
Huh? What's up with that?
And, "invite" into your "union?" What's that say?
I'm reading union, but I'm hearing bedroom. Quite a difference, that is. One doesn't "invite" someone into a "union" as I know it. One invites someone to join a party, but not to stay.
LOL, I must get my tail between the sheets and work off this silliness I seem to be stuck in.
Good luck, whatever you do.
I'm so glad I'm not you. My woman is all I need, and I better be all she needs. LOL. She tells me I am!
2006-07-05 13:52:17
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answered by deleted 3
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this happens quite often, it does not always work out, but the thot is there for all three in the relationship. I know of several couples that have more than one person in there life (marriage). All is well from the outside looking in.. They (all three) seem very happy.
2006-07-05 13:04:01
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answered by michael o 5
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Would that be fair on the Lesbian? I mean, by definition she'd have no interest in the husband. Better if it were a bisexual.
2006-07-05 11:07:15
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answered by unclefrunk 7
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That's sick.
2006-07-05 10:59:09
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answered by Anonymous
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