My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half months. I'm always the aggressor when it comes to sex. Sometimes I just don't feel like that is normal. Espcecially because he is 18. We both work very stressful jobs. Could it just be that he is too tired when we get home? Please Help
2006-07-05 03:06:07 · 6 answers · asked by ~*Katie*~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm 37 and my wife feels the same way. she's a former model and gets whistled at all day. she works about 3 hours a day and makes supper and runs the kids around town and is hot and ready for sex when i get home at five from an 8-5p job.
She doesn't want to do it then but after supper, baths for the kids, and bedtime, at 10p she's ready for hot love and sometimes i just want to watch a movie or listen to the radio and go to bed.
She thinks i should be as hot to trot as the guys who oggle her all day long. well, they are probably jobless and just plain horney because they haven't had sex in weeks. also, it's the middle of the day and they are awake and aware.
i challenge them to work 5 days a week, take care of a 4,000 square foot home and 28 acres, a wife, six kids and several vehicles, and still be mr. horny.
give the guy a break. if he loves you, then accept him when he's not at his BEST. or make him take horny pills. i'm taking them and i don't think they work.
i've been sexually active since i was 14 and found a box of dirty magazines in a neighbors garage. my penis was wore out by the time i got married at 27. maybe he masturbates a lot...that's a different feeling and different set of arousal techniques than being with a girl.
good luck
2006-07-05 03:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by scottdavidfletcher 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think becuase of tired and will not do. every peoples have their needs, especially guys with youngth age. Everybody work very stressful to, it's depend on how you feel it. Sex is actually sometime to release your or your bf' stress.
Maybe you can try with different changes in your dressing, make-up, gentle and try to ask on the right time.
Hope this will help you. Good Luck!
2006-07-05 10:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by ssnchen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK 18 years old and to tired for sex??? NO something is not right. I would do a little snooping around and be a little more watchful of his activities!! He's either gay or cheating or should go to the doc!
2006-07-05 10:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by apedanhar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living in parents' basement cannot be conducive to healthy libido. Take a trip some weekend and see if things improve.
2006-07-05 10:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he has a medical problem or he is cheating on you.
2006-07-05 10:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you are not attractive to him any more
2006-07-05 10:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by m17x5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋