2006-07-05 02:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If you treat her with respect and give her to love and affection she needs, then you should not have to worry about it. Make sure that you don't fall into our trap questions like.....do these pants make my butt look big? What do you think of my new haircut? If you could change anything about me, what would it be? We ask these questions all the time, just be careful and think before you speak. Don't be rude and sarcastic most women don't like that and will lash out on you. Plain and simple....you hurt a woman by neglecting her, by talking mean to her, taking advantage of her, or betraying her trust, ie. lying, cheating,etc. Don't hit her, don't abuse her in any way; don't threaten her, don't assume that she's going to do your laundry and cook for you without you giving her something back in return. Don't ever ever ever refer to her as "hey,woman".
2006-07-05 08:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and i know because a guy has broken my heart before.
1. Don't call her fat
2. Don't cheat on her
3. Don't lie to her
4. Don't hit her or do anything abusive
5. If a girl asks you out and you don't really like her that much but feel bad for her dont go out with her just becuase you feel bad becuase if she found out she will be broken hearted.
6. Be kind and nice
7. Say I love you
8. Give her hugs
9. Walk with her
10. Take her to a movie or dinner
11. Invite her over
12. Don't tell her ( if she asks you out ) that you dont want a girlfriend at the time and go and ask someone out the next day becuase that means you lied to her about not wanting a girlfriend.
13. Just love her! <3
Good luck!
2006-07-05 10:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let me start by saying that it is IMPOSSIBLE to avoid.....the old saying "you only hurt those you love" is a simple truth ...meaning that any form of disappointment is going to hurt someone who cares about you. the only hope for avoiding as much as possible is a constant form of RESPECT!!!!!!...although this seems to be a broad answer it is the foundation of any form of happiness
2006-07-05 10:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by alss03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL- your funny. Cheating with a friend or family member is really bad news. Poking fun or mocking a topic that you know she is super sensitive about as well (e.g., her divorced parents). Words are dangerous and can be fatal so always watch what you say.
2006-07-05 11:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean physically. There are tons of ways to hurt people. I wouldn't suggest any of them. If you mean emotionally don't say anything about her weight or her looks that may hurt her feelings. Don't cheat on her and don't break her heart.
2006-07-05 10:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have a thing to worry about, girls worry about broken hearts and you seem to be the kind that wants to hurt one in any way you can. Are you seeing a counselor?
2006-07-05 10:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Buffaloed in Charleston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, stop and think - how it would make YOU feel if someone you cared about did the same thing to you.
2006-07-05 15:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by amyshulk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie
Cheat
Physically abuse
or
Insult her about a super sensitive issue.
2006-07-05 10:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't cheat on her, beat her, or verbally abuse her! Those are three pretty bad ways to hurt a girl!
2006-07-05 10:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to know how to avoid hurting a girl, you need professional help. Please contact your doctor who can direct you to the help you need.
2006-07-05 10:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by DR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋