Am I the only one who ever goes through problems in my marriage? Whats the best way to overcome them?
2006-07-05 02:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by lacruzfamilia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I use to think Love could conquer all problems. I was naive then. But it takes a great deal of work and the drive to want to fix any problem. If you stop caring, you stop working. But the key factors would be honesty, communication, open minded, understanding, patience, space, hugs are good for stressful days and of course saying I love you and meaning it.
2006-07-05 07:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a break down in communication between you and your partner. Talk it out, see a counselor, never let silence be the answer. All you will do is make yourself unhappy by lettin everything build up inside you, and sooner or later you will blow and things may have reached the point where theres no getting over your issues.
Screaming at each other isnt the answer either, so try to have a sit down and try to understand where the other person is coming from and how theyre feeling. Be willing to compromise a little also. Hope my advice works!!
2006-07-05 10:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has problems in there marriage the thing in fixing them is what are the problems and at what level? Cheating? Possibly some serious conseling and it may not even work, money issues, just work out a plan together that you both agree on to get out of the hole, anything is possible, the main thing is communication without it nothing will change
2006-07-05 10:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to overcome problems is to always look long term in the marriage. Every marriage has bumps. Every single one. But if you are more worried about the bumps than the ride (the long marriage) you are doomed to fail.
2006-07-05 10:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage without problems. I think it is most important to be willing to compromise, to be honest with each other and to be willing to talk about everything openly. There are very few problems that cannot be solved if both parties are willing to make it work. The solutions may not be perfect, but if they're workable, then go with the flow.
2006-07-05 10:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not the only one, i have not been married a year yet and we are going through it. i am from another country and moved to be with my husband, and it has been a very hard thing. I but you have to be positive that your marriage is going to work out fine, I am not intending on leaving nor divorcing my husband, but we do have to talk, and keep the lines open to learn and grow from each other.
2006-07-05 10:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Zeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my husband and i have problems i sleep in the other room for 3 or 4 days then after the time and space from each other everything is fine
sometimes you just need time to your self
my husband and i fight mostly over the time he spends on the computer he will spend 24 hours a day if i didnt yell at hime
2006-07-05 10:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody goed through probles in their marriage. The question is, do you give up? Do you invest in your marriage?
Communication really is the key.
2006-07-05 10:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Cleavers didnt argue or fight..[ever watch the tv sitcom Leave it to Beaver]
2006-07-05 10:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION!!!!!!
2006-07-05 09:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋