i seriously need a friend with whom i can share everythin and whom i can trust.Can any guy plz help me
2006-07-05 02:52:30 · 13 answers · asked by jessi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No.1. Being a girl, yes. You can have a guy as a best friend.
No.2. Just be sure that you've chosen the right guy. Sometimes, we innocent girls tend to trust them too much, and they take advantage.
No.3. Eventually, you may end up falling for him, just know your limits and be ASSERTIVE. Stick to your morals and pricipals, no matter what.
No.4. A day might come when your boyfriend will object and feel a li'l J. A secure BF never gets J, and if he really cares for you, he wouldn't object. (Unless and otherwise, you feel your friend has bad intentions for you, stay clear of your BF)
No.5. Last advice. Keep the communication lines open. Always. Your Bf may create misunderstandings, or circumstances may complicate things. Face-to-face talk helps.
On the one hand, guys don't gossip and back-bite. But on the other hand, girls can't hurt you or ruin your life.
It's your choice. But remember, you make the decision, you accept the consequences - be it positive or negative. No blame game.
2006-07-05 03:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by DollyBrownEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you can, it just has to be clearly established that you are just friends. I've had 2 guy friends in my life that were my best friends. One of them was really my best friend no intentions other than friendship, we could talk about anything, hang out whatever. But the other one... well let's just say we have 2 kids now. So if you want a guy friend make sure your boundaries are clear and that the 2 of you respect the friendship.
2006-07-05 09:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just need a friend whom you can trust and share everything,then why not a girl?
The best way to make friends is to be one.
2006-07-05 09:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by iam who iam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. If men really have a compasion for a women then he will help her no matter what the situation is.I know i would because i dont take relationships like this for granted.
2006-07-05 10:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by popstar452003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. I have 3 femail best friends, My GF, and two other girls that actually are only friends. Sure I'll help ya out.
2006-07-06 03:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by jr_kuhn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you can , I think you'll find that you can trust a male friend to be more honest and not blab to all his male friends what you have told him in confidence.
2006-07-05 10:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!!! my best friend is a guy... we know each other since we wear diapers lol... i can tell you... it's the most satisfying relationship i have in my life! guys are great to talk to (you know how girls can be mean, right??), they're much more sincere too
2006-07-05 10:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes talk to a guy is better than talking to a girl(if u r a girl)coz if u talk a girl...they will juz think the same way u do...but if a guy...u will get more information from them...coz they are suppose to understand girls....-.-
2006-07-05 10:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by candylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, you cna have a guy friend someone you can talk to about evrey thing
2006-07-05 09:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys can be good best friends.
2006-07-05 10:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋