And she dont listen what should you do
2006-07-05 02:23:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't force the issue!!! you've told her what you feel and that's all you should do! it's her choice, it's not like she's anorexic or alcoholic, it's not endangering her health or anything so it's up to her to make her own decisions! i've had a few of my friends go on at me about stuff like that....honestly i never did thank them in the end! it just annoyed me, and sometimes i wondered if maybe one or two of them were just doing it to be bitchy....you know slag off your taste in clothes/men etc. it just seems like what's the difference? i know you have probably the best intentions in the world but just to warn you it can come off sounding bad! unless as i said it's something that endangers her wellbeing like her being beaten up or really verbally abused, then just leave well enough alone! if she leaves before she's ready to (as in before she genuinely can';t stand him anymore!) she'll just end up getting back with him!
2006-07-05 02:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by fatso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. It's not your problem and she'll probably just assume the worst and think you want them to break up because you're jealous. If you really want to TRY and help confront the guy about it. Tell him you know what's up and to cut it out. That is if you want him to dump you friend of course. It's a hard choice but either way someone is going to get hurt.
2006-07-05 09:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She knows without you telling her. You're in a "no-win" situation here. If she says things about him, you just listen, cause if you agree, after they make up, you're the bad-guy. Let her learn her lesson. Eventually she'll be calling you for advice, and then you can tell her. Until then, just listen and MYOB.
2006-07-05 09:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her ride the path of life and be a friend and listen when she needs you. Be a friend and dont tell her I told you so
2006-07-05 09:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know she is your best friend and all, but if she doesn't even want to believe you about something this serious, then she is obviously putting her man before your friendship. (big no-no).
anyway, try to get some evidence. if not, set him up and make sure she is around to see what he is really like. just remember one thing, love is blind. She won't believe you until she sees it, and then she might still not want to believe it.
2006-07-05 09:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing,,
sit back and wait untill she finds out for herself and be there for her when she needs a friend to console her..
sometimes its hard to say nothing but in these cases its the best policy
good luck to you both
2006-07-05 09:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wont listen... then let her do what she wants... it is enough that you told her about her man... but if you were given a chance again to talk to her... remind her once again... maybe this time she would listen
2006-07-05 09:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by boyang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doen't want to listen to you, so be quiet.
If you are truly her friend just be there for her.
2006-07-05 09:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the cheat and tell them to tell or you will
2006-07-05 09:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Peter B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find proofs -like photos/video/sms/mails and stuff- and show them to her.
2006-07-05 09:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋