My daughter is 7, I have to work, daycare is convient and she love it last week untill my ex's mom decided to say that to my daughter!!! She has only made things hard for my daughter. Is she crazy?
2006-07-05 02:21:43 · 9 answers · asked by alabama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I also feel my daughter need sinvovlement with other children. The daycare takes them swiming, aon field trips, art and crafts, movies etc.... kids from her school attend also
2006-07-05 02:39:24 · update #1
she definately does not want to save me money.......
2006-07-05 02:40:34 · update #2
She is either trying to make your life difficult OR she is worried she isn't going to be able to see your daughter as much as she would like to.
Either way, putting an adult decision on a child is unfair to the child. It is not your daughter's decision to make. This woman was using your daughter to put pressure on you, to manipulate you and your daughter. Don't fall for it.
You must insist that if this woman wants to see your daughter, she speak to you directly about it, not involve your daughter.
2006-07-05 02:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 10⤊ 1⤋
She doing the wrong thing, she could have offered this before you had your daughter settled. However it could be nanna wanting access with her grand daughter.(even if not her nan she has had a link with this child) you need to keep to a routine and independence and perhaps suggest another time for access to occur. Grandparents feel the loss of their grand kids too and often is harder when it is the sons child as access is usually more limited. Let your daughter have contact with her nan if all can be assured that she will be safe and at no risk, she has a right to her birth family too.
2006-07-05 09:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother told me the same thing many times - I could go to her house anytime I wanted. She loved me and loved spending time with me. She drove my mother nuts on many occasions (this was her own mother, not her in-law). My grandma has been dead for several years and I really miss her...
I don't think she meant to make things hard on you or your daughter, she just wants to spend time with her. She loves her grandbaby. Perhaps she is afraid that she won't be seeing as much of her anymore.
2006-07-05 09:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jeannie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants to spend more time with her and save you money. It may not be a bad thing. Let her if your daughter gets along with her try it for a few days and see if it will work out or not. wont hurt to try it.
2006-07-05 09:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, ithink she cares about her grand daughter,loving parents can take better care of childrens than daycare professionals
2006-07-05 09:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex's mother is playing the "be nice and you will come to me" game; it is up to you if you are the custodial parent, to make the choices.
2006-07-05 09:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the mother of your child you are the one who should make that decsion you should do what make your daughter happy and you happy
2006-07-05 09:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be a **** starter!
2006-07-05 17:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not crazy.....she is a *****!
2006-07-05 09:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋