If you get into an argument with a friend, partner, family member, etc. do your true feelings come out? Whatever the situation that caused the argument, whether it was a honesty/lying problem, trust, feelings, etc. Is what you say and/or write to them what you actually feel or is it just from being angry at that moment? Are you justified if it is true and what you actually feel?
2006-07-05 02:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Usually, you are angry enough to say what you really feel. You feel bad afterwords, but thats because you dont want to hurt the other person, you just want them to change.
2006-07-05 02:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually what you say when you angry is 50% true 50% not true.
In life we all feel different at cetain times.Hurting a persons feeling is not human and in anger we don't think before we say due to the fact we have been hurt an feel that the only way to heal the pain would be to harm the party involved weather is be pysical or through words. But the fact remain we all have a side to us where we think things that are secrets never to be revealed and in arguments this tends to come out.
saying something in an argument could only be a result of fighting to stand tall or because you really always believed in what you said but just need to trigger the bomb.
2006-07-05 09:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course everyone has underlying issues with others. And yes they are likely to be revealed when one is angry. However, this does not make you a bad person or even make the friendship less that what it is. Actually it shows how strong a relationship is. Unconditional acceptance despite the issues that exist between two people.
2006-07-05 09:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said things I really didn't mean in the heat of an arguement. I just wanted to be hateful and hurtful since I was angry. After I calm down and realize that what I said wasn't true and deeply hurt this person, I ALWAYS apologize. Best thing is just not to make me angry. lol
2006-07-05 09:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The anger might be strong enough to break your heart dam. The water comes out and floods everything away. After that you will need time for repair or change of new attitude. But we still lie, only in a new form.
2006-07-05 09:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually. Sometimes I will say things just to hurt that person like I've been hurt by them. Usually though, I'll say what I really feel and I didn't have the courage to say it before.
2006-07-05 09:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur thoughts do come out cause wen ur mad its rele hard to controll that theres time i say such hard words that i think is happening and it hurts after to noe that u hurt someone but if it is the truth you cant take it back you can apologize but it might not do anything to help u because wut they did must have rele hurt for u to burst out ur true feelings
2006-07-05 09:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by loca_baby_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just being angry at the moment you though are racing though your mind and you speak what every come though your mind with out procession it first
2006-07-05 09:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋