A difficult situation: do you tell or don't you?

Question

Lets say you see a lady, you don't know, who's got something on her a$$, i mean like a sticker stuck to her clothing or dust or something like that, like she sat on something. Do you tell her and save her the embarrasment or do you just keep quiet because she might think you're trying to be funny or mocking her or just rude?

What should a guy do? What a woman in that situation expect?

Answer 1

if I was you I would approach her in a "quiet" way, saying something like: "sorry, I really do not want to offend you, but there is something...." and just tell her like it is. But do it in a way that no one else will notice or hear what you said. And then you just give her a shy smile and walk away; slowly enough to hear her say "TNX" ALWAYS let someone know in that situation since you'd be happy if it was the other way around, right?

Answer 2

Hmm, now that's a hard one. As a woman, I think I would prefer to hear it from a woman than a man. Just because if a woman told me I would think be thankful and take care of whatever the problem was but if a guy walked up to me and said "hey, you got some brown looking shyt stuck to the back of your a$$", I'd be down right embarrassed. You know guys make it way more dramatic than a girl would. But if you can do it in a polite and respectful manner, by all means do tell!

Answer 3

I'm a woman, and I'd want to be told, so....

I'd tap her on the shoulder or arm to get her attention, then lean over and whisper that she's got something on the back of her skirt.

I'd expect the same from a man, although it may be more comfortable for everyone involved if he sends his wife/girlfriend to deliver the message... I know if my husband noticed that kind of thing, I'd offer to go tell her.

Answer 4

that has happened to me. I saw a lady with a sticker on her behind. I told her, I was just as embarressed as her, but she was thankful. let me ask you this, would you want somebody to tell you if you had something stuck to your asss, and save you the embarressment

Answer 5

I would tell her just do not touch or try to get it yourself unless she asks you too because the only reason women think men are rude or nasty is because there are alot of guys out there that like to touch before trying to talk and then they get slapped and thats another nail in the coffin of how sick us guys are

Answer 6

Subtly tap her and let gher know. If she gets an attitude, don't take it personal- maybe she knows and couldn't get to a bathroom to get it off. Maybe she's just having a bad day. But in general, it's better to let someone know.

Answer 7

I would expect the guy to tell her it's the polite thing to do yes it would save her from further embarrassment.

Answer 8

Tell her, but don't say "A$$". Tell her she has something on her jeans (or skirt, or whatever). I think she would be more embarrassed if you said she had something on her butt, can, tush, rear, bottom, etc. Keep it clean and do the courteous thing and tell her (respectfully).

Answer 9

Every one appreciates a genuine and good gesture. If deep inside you you are telling her because you want to safe her embarassment, then this will automatically communicate itself and will be appreciated, unless ofcourse the person in question is mentally confused.Go own and safe a face.

Answer 10

I'm a woman and truely I prefer anyone found me in same sitituation to tell me and I'll be grateful.