ok i have a boyfriend that is my babydaddy and he si always going to his mothers si he jsu tscared or does he not want to eb wiht em anymore or what you tell me i ahv easked myself alot so someone help em please
2006-07-05 01:42:27 · 11 answers · asked by mariah s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he must be treated better at home
2006-07-05 01:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't just jump to conclusions cause thats what starts problems I am 28 have a 3 year old daughter and when my girl was pregnant with her I used to go to my moms alot and I still do go to my moms alot me and her have a tight relationship and I go and help her out and see my family so just find out from him ask him not us cause then you will get the wrong answers like the first person telling you to just drop him that could cause more problems then its worth in the long run cause you don't know why he is doing what he is doing he could be scared and talking to his mother for advice in how to raise the kid everyone gets scared when they have a child coming even if you have 7 kids a nice big house and enough money to raise one you still get nervous because no mattter how the others turned out you never know what will happen with this one so before you gone on the advice of strangers talk to him and find out what he says first
2006-07-05 08:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by OZoNE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess what you have to ask yourself is if he is going to his mother's looking for support, or is he trying to run away from the situation. It seems to me that it may be a good thing that he has such a good relationship with his parents (especially if you are really young), because when the baby comes you will need all the support you can get from him and your "in-laws".
2006-07-05 08:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by C'thulhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and put him up for childsupport or something you don't need to raise another child along with the one you have you need a strong man and also he should have thought about the scared part before he got your pregnant because you didn't do it alone he needs to grow up and stop making excuses.
2006-07-05 08:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he goes to his mom a lot says nothing on its own. In fact, you should go with him, you will need his parents and yours with the baby coming. See how he treats you and how supportive and involved he is with the situation. Do his parents know about it? What is their opinion?Try to get their support too. Try to become a family. What about marriage?
2006-07-05 08:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, tell him whats on your mind. Ask him if he still loves you and what you guys can do to work through your problems.
Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-05 08:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by CityG82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you have asked yourself these questions, but have you talked to him?? Communication is important in any relationship.
2006-07-05 08:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your boyfriend and second you both should have been using protection.
2006-07-05 09:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm not sure what the question is. but he probably still likes you.
2006-07-05 08:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Soulbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably right hes probably scared.have yu talked to him about this and the baby?
2006-07-05 08:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by laurabaton93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋