Am I Cursed!!!???

Question

I really hate to be asking this question but it seems like all of my life i have been a raget for bad anything! my family lacked structure for real, my mother was insane and school was horrible the teachers made fun of me, and the students. Love lifes was screwed! boyfriends become crazy or over jelouse or abusive... its hell being in college i mean

I am a cancer....Are cancers prone to this ?

Answer 1

No. It's nothing to do with your star sign.
I know this sounds cheesy but things do happen for a reason. I've had a pretty crappy life but sometimes you have to focus on the good things u have - even if there isn't many of them. It works - trust me!!! These things have probably happened because your destined to be with someone or to be something or be somewhere and the only way it can happen is if you experience the bad things. Remember, all these bad things can only make you grow stronger.

Imagine your personality is a wall. The bricks are you and the cement is the bad things. The more cement the stronger the wall.

I know that life might seem like a bummer now and it might not get better for a while but one day it will. I'm still waiting for that day and I know in my heart that it will arrive. You just need to hang in there and be strong.

Hope everything turns out okay sweetheart :-)

Answer 2

Honey...even as one who does charts..ONLY rely upon yourself. YOU are an Angel...one so kind ..i sense it...you are an angel who walks this earth..let no one break your spirit. You have my energy.They seem kind and are the most selfish people. They tend to be uppity in relationships for they are never wrong. (Yeah right) They look for the opportunity to covet and it's alright that they do it, just not if another does. They are so critical and for little reason. They are gullible. They love food so much that they overdo it. If they are in love or have obsessive qualities about something, it is God's word and they HATE being wrong.
In relationships they are sneaky, myopic and extremely selfish. They blame others for their misfortunes. they are very superstitious ~ they are fun when they have a little drink in them, dry sense of humour...and a LOT of fear. No one tells a Cancerian what or how to think. They are great at holding grudges....and great at hiding money away. They make awful cooks. They are likened to the Mock Turtle in Alice in Wonderland......they cry over spilt milk..and it takes forever to please them. So, why bother....? On the other hand the tenacity they have drives them to a success that none around them intended ~ While Cancers have "Faces" that they make, they take out their unusually sensitive natures, so close to the top in varied ways....acting would be one...even if it is as simple as the most dry sense of humour when it comes to a one liner...oh hten they can have others spewing their drinks!!!! They get the point faster than just about anyone, it is weighed quickly and then dealt with.
Oh..ok...so they CAN cook...but do NOT like to do anything beneath them....and often that is the case....but I will say this, that in a pinch or a crisis, they are the ones there with the soft shoulder and correct advice that you need....I tell you now THAT is something rare. I have known many Cancerians and have two planets in Cancer and HATE to clean my room.
NO U ARE NOT CURSED! YOU ARE AN ANGEL.......*I think I see a halo...don't worry...it will not slip....*wink*

Answer 3

I would say it's not just Cancers. Your life sounds a lot like mine used to. I am in my 30's now and just got married to a wonderful man. Up until about a year ago I always said that if I didn't have bad luck, I'd have no luck at all. About 8 months ago things got even worse, but with the new year I made a resolution to stop feeling sorry for myself and make my life better. I am a Virgo. It will get better, I promise, you just have to believe in yourself. BNelieve that you deserve only the best and that you are a princess and any man that you are with should treat you as such.

Good Luck

Answer 4

You know, just because things look bad doesn't mean that they're really bad. Keep on the positive side and you might already start feeling luckier than before. ^_^ After all, it's your life, so it's yours to control instead of the other way around.

ps:They're just life's lessons. They make you stronger and better or do you prefer to lead an easy life and suffer later on? I mean, if you're spoiled, it's very unlikely that you'll be able to find a real friend at least, be indipendence and responsible later on you know. Just appreciate what you have right now and you'll be better. Trust me. :) So, cheer up! Life is sooo good!

Answer 5

Cancers are very passive and you need to take control of your life. You like something, go get it. You hate your life, make it better the way you want it. Life doesn't JUST happen, it is what you make it. You are not going to be an alcoholic just because your mother was and your love life, you don't need a man to make you who you are. I am a Cancer, born July 20th and I read my horoscope everyday and I take that message and try to incorporate it into my daily routine. Look to the stars and stop whining and start making things happen for you!

Answer 6

Your only problem is that, as a cancer, you tend to have a lot of self pitty and also tend to wallow in misery. Everyone has had bad times, and heck- a lot of folks, bad lives. the only thing you can hope to do is move forward and be optimistic about the coming days! Every zodiac sign has something in their lives they must learn grow to become whole- and Cancer's is to rely on their emotions without letting their emotions drown them or pull them under. Always remember that. Belive it. I have cancer as my moon sign and it's a struggle. Just the fact that you ask this question says you already feel overwhelmed. Godd luck, girl!

Answer 7

I wouldn't suggest looking for answers in astrology. It's complete poppycock.

I'm sorry you've suffered in life. I honestly think you might feel better if you talked to a therapist about your problems and the way you're feeling. A therapist can help you learn to cope with your problems, and make changes in areas of your life that you feel need work.

There's likely a therapist on your college campus you can talk to (who is there for that very purpose). Good luck.

Answer 8

Yes you are cursed. I am a practicing occultist, I have been practicing for about 11 years now. This is a very common kind of curse however removal is not particularly easy.

I am a cancer and was infected with a similar problem. I will not discuss anything about removal here. Removing it is a very personal thing.

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Answer 9

Girl I'm a Cancer too:)
It's not that bad most of it is your imagination and you need to learn how to control it.
Cancers are beautiful and loving people they just need to realize that the whole world is not against them.
You have to believe in your self and love your self the way you are.
You need person who will understand your emotional world so look for Pisces and Scorpio.
Good Luck!

Answer 10

I have friends that are cancers and yall are not prone to bad. I mean everyone has hard times in life. God is testing you to see how strong you are. Life will get better.