my step dad is on his last days of cancer i just say him for the first time two days ago it was the worst i seen. someone like me dad is baout to leave. my question is i had asked him to try and send me a sign if you are ok. like i told him to rock my rocking chair in my room. do u think he can do this so i have comfort hes there.
2006-07-05 01:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by Cassandra T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the only way he can do that is if he go in ur room n do thatbut no i don't think taht can happen
2006-07-05 01:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I hope this help.My mother die 3yrs ago and that's hard .Something happen the day after we buried her I was home along I my mother's house I was losing out my hair in the mirror in the hall where there is a chandelier with crystal like objects on it I was thinking about my mother I was crying and one of these crystal like objects started moving I pay it no mind until the more I thought about my mom the more it move.I looking at this object and looked around this house no wind was blowing nothing was moving it was so peaceful so I began to speak in my mind not out loud the more I spOKe the faster it moved it rock side to side as if someone was holding a baby I spoke to my mother that day.I told her that the family would be ok and for her to go be at peace and not to worry and that I love her and will miss her.The more I spoke that faster it went until it just stop .I am a very scary person but that day I wasn't .I believe my mom was there with me that day or at least her spirit I am every grateful for what that was I thank God.So it might not be the rocking chair moving it could be a scent or anything god will let you know .
sorry for your pain .email me anytime
2006-07-17 23:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your dad. That is truely tragic. In times like these, it's nice to know that they are looking over us and comforting us. The Bible tells us that the dead are conscious of nothing at all, nor will there be pain, tears, suffering, or sorrow. God comforts all of us. My best advice is to remember all the good times, put pictures and momentos around your room that he and you shared together, and you will be reminded of the love he shared with you. He will live forever in your heart. I'll be praying for you.
2006-07-05 09:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by shalom0422 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that it can happen, if you believe he will send you some kind of sign, then you will likely see a sign. If you have doubts and firmly refuse to believe, the sign could be literally "smacking you in the face" and you won't admit it. So, you must understand that it's your belief and faith that makes these things possible, just like in religion. No one here can tell you what you will believe.
My condolences to you and your family on your stepfather's illness and prognosis. I wish you light and peace.
2006-07-05 14:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by nighthawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Read Sylvia Brownes Books,She is an amazing woman with alot of insight on this sort of thing.When My dad passed away he came to me in a dream so I would know he was okay.Just believe and you will get the answers or signs you seek.
2006-07-05 09:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, my condolences to your step dad!
I have no idea if your step dad will be able to do that or not. Nobody knows what people do after they pass away. What i do know is that your step dad will be okay when he passes away and he will be in a new, happy place and free from pain and suffering!
2006-07-05 08:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't be able to do that no unless he physically can. He's there, trust me he is. My step mother in law died of cancer last year, and she could hear us even though she couldn't respond. It has been proven people in a coma state can hear you up until the end. So please have comfort that he can hear you. ((((Hugs)))
2006-07-05 09:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by always_auds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your dad. my prayers are with you. my answere is i believe it could happen. it had happened to me with a lost lost love one. a whole diffrent way but i believe your dad will always be with you. no words i say can change this. but if you ever need to talk. your on my 360 and friends list. your friend gloria
2006-07-05 09:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by gloria_m763 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. Sometimes all is needed is an open mind and a willing heart.
2006-07-05 09:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Boots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think anything is possible. And believe it or not I bet you'll get signs he's there, you just have to be open to seeing them.
2006-07-05 08:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knew I was going to post here girl...As having such a strong spiritual indian background as I do..Yes not only is it possible, it will happen..Get in touch with your inner strength, your spiritual side..The spirits will let you know they are alright and that they are watching over you and your loved ones...It's only there time to cross back over, there soul lives on and will return once more...Love deep, our souls feel and never forget...hugs-n-luvs to you....
2006-07-05 09:38:29 · answer #11 · answered by ~â?¥â?«~Swan~â?¥â?«~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋