im afraid to talk to ppl in the real world. what do i do?

Question

im a 24 year old guy from england

Answer 1

Face your fear. Go out and talk to a total stranger. Start for example in a public library where you will probably find more educated people and maybe some other shy people who will understand better how you feel.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

I dont know.READ ALL THIS AND DONT GET PUT OFF BY THE START. Im a good looking dude and millions of girls would love to go out with me cos im such a nice guy. very easy to get along with and have a smile that charms the pants off of anyone. This is what strangers and friends have said MANY times. Problem is.... I dont belive it. Im not ugly..... i know this.... im a nice person.... most if the time...... i guess you gotta believe in yourself. Im still trying. Chin up. Fell over??? stand up. Things gettin you down.... cry!!! then smile.... you dont have to say something. I dont. Sometimes im more comfertable staying quiet than filling space with shite. But get me on a roll and.... well you can see. I can talk alot. But not all the time. it comes in bursts. U just need to find yourself mate. And not using your dick. Well maybe but whatever gets you out. Oh.... I agree with the exercise thing. Do some sit ups and push ups in your room. It makes you happier. Ahhh well. hope iv helped and not rambled tooooo much. Good luck. the world needs allsorts to turn.

Answer 3

I think that you when you get ready to go into the real world and talk to people you should think to yourself, whats the worst thing that can happen. Start off by just saying hi to random people and how are you and before you know it you will see that there are pretty nice people out there and then you will be able to hold a conversation with any stranger. Look at a stranger as though you will never see them again so that there is no risk of embarrassment.

Answer 4

What is the real world anyway??? Isnt this forum a "REAL" way to communicate?
How did you communicate online when you first connected to the internet? Did you struggle to keep up with the chatrooms?

You need to practice your comunication skills. Written, Verbal, and Body language. Like they say... Use it or lose it.

If you are shy around people you meet, then learn to break the ice. if the other person comes across as untrustworthy then maybe they are not worth talking to.

You might struggle at first but practice makes perfect.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 5

Brush your teeth two times a day and use scoop mouth wash. Take a bath and use deordorant. Groom bodily hair and get a good hair cut. Plus, if you're a female and are ugly...wear make up. If you're a male and are ugly, wear stylish clothes.
In general, smell good and look nice. Stop dressing and smelling like a slob or a geek.
Take a break from the computer. Practice self-awareness. Go to: www.enneagraminstitute.com

Answer 6

First you need to re-access your perception of the real world and not believe that you are the only one with that problem. A lot of people have that problem but in different degrees. Insecurity breeds insecurity and at what point is it self imposed so that you can hide behind it. The real world is not so different from yours and you need to say to yourself that you will solve this problem either by yourself, with a friend or, if need be, with some professional help. It all works if you want it to.

Answer 7

I understand how you feel, my problem has always been with women, which is why i am still single. It is easier to talk to people of the same sex since they share more in common like life problems and intrests than the opposite sex. So why not trying to go somewhere like for me a bar where i sit with the guys and start off by saying "hey hows it going"? Then we generally talk about sports or whats on the tv and it leads up to intoductions but just remember where ever you go just relax smile and say hello.

Answer 8

hey! are you some confounded freak having confidence issues?If so ,then look into the mirror ,bonk yr head and say 'hey,I need not be afraid of any being out there'
its all in the head pal! dont ever think that 'oh do i look good' or 'hey do i smell good' or 'hmm.......will my response be smart enough' or ' huh? are my socks matching ' ............etc.
my point is : never doubt yrself in front of people at all! cuz when you do so,you dwindle in self image and confidence and its a fiasco....you start to stammer,making you look a nervous wreck.
face people with confidence in yrself and think you ARE the best ,it shows when you walk down that doggy dog world out there! SO HEADS UP ,AND DONT SLOUCH!
KEEP YR HEAD UP AND SHINE THROUGH THE DAY,
YOU WILL DEFFINATELY BE A CHAMP THIS WAY!!

by the way....just curious to ask you,have to actually spoken to someone NOT in the real world like outer space.....i waz wondering from yr question !!!

Answer 9

Just do it.

Actually, that cannot be answered easily. That requires more discussion and probing questions like "why are you afraid?" It would also be much easier if you ask someone who knows you personally. The advice we give may not be specific to your needs if we don't know you well enough. But you could try chatting with someone and talk more about it.

Answer 10

try to talk with the people in net, than talk to ur family member, sure u will? than ur friend? than ... people won't bite u, give urself a chance, u should know what r u afraid for, at first,
so, what to talk? talk about the movie? superman? about ur cloth? about the game u like? about the news? football? find something u know and try to talk with ur friends :-) when u do ur first step, u will. If u really afraid to talk in real world, at least u step the first step in this 'world', why not in ur real?
b nice :-)