Finding it hard to get time with my wife in this busy world with work and kids school and sports no time left for my wife, what do I do?
2006-07-03 23:51:43 · 14 answers · asked by neo70 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make time, you said there were sports so you have time for that. Kids can become too demanding and if your not careful they will take over. Make a day or evening a week and take your wife out. One day out of 7 isn't much but you have to do it. It's good that you want to spend more time with your wife, you sound like a good husband, your wife is lucky
2006-07-03 23:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you recognize the issue. This is one the marriage issues which requires some work. You need to make time for each other. The kids will be gone in fewer years than you think, you'll turn around and you won't know the person living with you.
No other item is more important than you being a couple. The kids will deal a lot better with a couple than a seperate pair.
2006-07-04 02:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is most important,when kids are gone and you two are all alone and really don't know each other,then what? Why is there an obsession to have our kids so busy? You have to find time for your wife,get a babysitter,and take her out.
2006-07-04 00:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by mojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you've completely dealt with the loss yet. Having someone you believe to be your soul mate cheat on you must be devastating!! The ultimate betrayal... which explains why you're "looking" for faults in every guy you meet... whether you realize you're doing it or not. But its okay, you need to take time to get over this and when you have, and you're good and ready (not when your friends and family believe you are) then you will be able to put yourself back out there. Take some time for yourself, make you happy again and things will get better!!! Good Luck! Aloha!
2016-03-27 03:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a babysitter take a break from sports and make a day for just u and your wife good luck
2006-07-04 00:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean hard isn't it? The truth is you have to make time try asking a relative to have kids one night so you can have some quality time together
2006-07-03 23:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you put your wife as a priority, she will be in great peaceful mind that will let you worry less about managin time, because she will take care of most of the things that worries you.
wife is priorty, wife is happy, whole house is happy. wife is not , whole house is misrable.
2006-07-04 00:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work ,kids, sports are temporary - marriage is until death do us part - make time for your wife
2006-07-04 00:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make time with your Wife a priority....find time to spend together even if it is a short amount of time. :)
2006-07-04 00:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut down on sports a little and manage your time
2006-07-03 23:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by lookatumiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋