You find a guy/girl you like and start a relationship...only to later find out they have only kissed same sex, and have NO clue what to do sexually? I call them play dates, cuz that's all they do is play around!
2006-07-03 23:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by I [heart] ache 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was just wondering if this happens a lot. A lot of girls I date turn out to not be into anything but kissing, and when it turns sexual, they freak out. And I date 20-26 year olds.
2006-07-03 23:54:27 · update #1
Maybe you should start kissing a little lower? Sorry. I've not had this happen. Perhaps you need to inspire them a bit more up front -- find out who's really wanting to play and who's just going to lead to the frustration later. I know, sounds glib, and it probably is.
2006-07-05 14:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by deleted 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I had to read your question a few times to get it.
I think you are saying that everytime you find another female that you want to be in a relationship with they turn out to just want to kiss.
Yea that happens a lot.
The reason is because right now in society there is this whole 'it's cool to be a lesbian' thing going on. So a lot of women who have never really had same sex feelings much before are curious.
I don't know if it's that they don't know what to do sexually or that they aren't sure how far they want to take it. Either way it sux. hehe
I went through this last summer btw. I finally said, 'freaking make up your mind.'
2006-07-04 04:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you really shouldn't care who they have or haven't kissed before, you can be their first and show them how. Also some people want a deeper realtionship before doing anything more sexual then kissing. Nothing wrong with being a little old fashioned. Are you in the realtionship to get to know the person or just get a sexual fix? People also have had different expeirences in their lifes, maybe not as many sexual as you have, so teach them, help them along the first few times, they will catch on soon enough.
2006-07-04 04:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try French kissing. You know play around with your tongue in your partner's mouth. This usually brings your partner to excitement and events develop beyond kissing.
2006-07-04 00:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every one has to have a first. Just do the french kissing thing till they beg you for more.
2006-07-04 02:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start asking the sex question up front and stop dating bi/straight girls
2006-07-05 13:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by NY Lesbian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does this fit into that gay/lesbian/transgendered category??
I've never encountered this problem to the extent that I have to write about it. Try not dating 16-23 yr olds.
2006-07-03 23:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by diceman74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well, this happened to me too but i guess I'm luckier.... I'm now practically married to my ex "play date"...lol we've been together for 4 years already...
so i guess you can teach an old dog new tricks after all.... don't give up hope sweetie! you'll find her someday!
2006-07-04 01:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dats Da most annoying feeling!u're right.I agree.
2006-07-03 23:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u mean they havent done anything with the same sex only with opposite?
2006-07-04 01:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by playboy_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋