What do you do when your man comes home @ 6am in the morning and simply says good morning?

Question

My man stayed out til 6am only to say good morning when he came in. When I asked him why was he out all night and early morning he replied I had a blow out and I had to drop some people off in Long Iland. Then I proceeded to ask him why didn't he answer 1 of my 200 calls or at least call home to say he was ok. He replied I should have called and went to bed.

Answer 1

OOOOOkkkkk, and if you believe that story, I have some swamp land in Arizona to sell you, lmao!!! It is clear that he is full of it, is lying to cover up "something". If what he said was true...it only would have taken a quick phone call to you to let you know what was going on AT THE TIME. That would be called simple consideration.....If it happened again, I would defiantly change the locks on the doors and tell him that you do not have time for "players". And in response to Matt's comment down there....what planet did you fall off of? Haven't you ever heard that it takes TWO to tango? Yes, in America, we do have some woman AND men who gain weight, let themselves go, etc. but all over the world apparently there are still pigs who do wrong and blame others for their wrong doings. I would venture to guess that weight issues happen all over the world, as do cheating issues. There is no excuse for cheating on ones mate, period. If one is not happy with what they have, let them go, and go seek your greener grass without hurting others in the process.

Answer 2

Check the spare. If it is on the car - he may have had a blow out (but we both doubt it, don't we ?) If you have other reasons - besides this one - to suspect him, you may want to pack his bags for him.

Whether or not he was out carousing or cheating on you (and that would be pretty darn bad), he has treated you with tremendous and jaw-dropping disrespect. Even if everything was completely innocent (riiiiiiiiiight), the fact that he allowed you to worry and call and call and call - and his only response is "oops, shoulda - now gotta get some sleep" is unacceptable. And, you know, I don't think any amount of talking about it is going to change anything. Rarely does. Takes two to tango and he doesn't wanna dance.

You can't change him, honey - he has demonstrated what he is made of and perhaps the scales will now fall from your eyes. Time to have a little respect for yourself.

Answer 3

well my past experience from a bad marriage is pay close attention now to his behavior if this is the first time he has done this give him a little rope if he is having an affair the sign's will be there you must pay close attention to his time frame his coming and going is he tired when he come's home or maybe a one night stand here and there when there behavior change's there is usually a reason I know trust is a very important tool in a relationship and you don't want him to know that you are paying attention let him do whatever he think's he's getting away with . give the cow enough rope and he will hang himself. I don't know much about your relationship with him if this is the first time this has ever happened then it may not be nothing my answer is trust him until he give's you a reason not to trust him GOOD LUCK !

Answer 4

Wow, i'd confront him by utilizing keeping "Your telephone became going off in the different room and that i went to flow see who it became merely incase it became an emergency then i noticed you've some textual content messages from yet another lady. Why would you flow over to a special lady's homestead? " i imagine that is in my opinion imagine that is inappropriate for him to flow to this "buddy's" (male or lady) homestead after 2 AM til 6AM besides. he's not any longer unmarried anymore!!!! Please do not pressure out. i comprehend it's going to be complicated besides the undeniable fact that that is not any longer strong for the toddler.

Answer 5

what!!!! HELL NO! Im sorry but thats just wrong. I guess im not the only girl who goes through this. Its just all bad news when they act that way...either hes cheating or he doesnt answer his phone when hes out with friends...they have this pride thing that only happens when their with their friends...Im sorry that you stayed up all night worrying about him...i bet you didnt even fall asleep...I just think you should talk to him and explain that its just more convienent for you if he were to just call and let you know he was going to be late....try not to argue, they just get more defensive...just be careful

Answer 6

after the clock turned 11p then u shoulda had his sh*t packed and locks changed wit him and his sh*t on the other side of the door. it still aint too late to do it. no man or woman has a good enuff reason 4 bein out like that. he might b cheatin on u.

Answer 7

loose weight and dress sexier. He's cheating on you, but it's always your fault. You turned into a fat slob and he is doing someone alot sexier. Become that sexy chick you used to be! He'll never look at anyone else again. Too many American women don't realize it's their own fault.

Answer 8

If I was you I would go on a girly night out,and dont come home!! plus I would turn my phone off.give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he likes it! men have to learn the hard way,especially when they are inconsiderate.oh,and get all dolled up!!!

Answer 9

Honey stop wasting your time on a bum and dont believe that crap. Tell him you will not have him staying out all night while your married to him, he will respect you or you/him can get the hell out.

Answer 10

After he had said that to you, you should have gone into the kitchen, collect a full kettle of boiling water and splash it in his pants...He won't do it again!