We have been together for 6 years. we love each other very much . but we can't get married because i am a christian and she is a muslim. For both of us our marriage is not acceptable by our families. we are very much afraid of losing each other. Cause she thinks that if i am not converted to muslim this is the time for her to decide.The Problem is that i don't want to convert to Islam.
2006-07-03 23:20:58 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey no matter how much you love a person you shouldn't be forced to do what you dont want......maybe you should try moving to a different country where religon doesnt play a big part in the society as a whole so that you can live in peace.
2006-07-03 23:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Being in love is not a sin or a crime. If you really love each other you must compromise a little. Neither of you has to convert as long as you accept each other for the way you are regardless of what your families think.
If I were you I'd get a civil marriage and in time your families will get to accept your decision.
2006-07-04 01:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really really really love each other then dont listen to anyone..Tell her to dress up nice and tell her u have a surprise for her.. Wear ur best tuxedo and smile wide and go get marry!! U dont have to get married in a church or where the muslims do.. There are also the civil weddings or how do u call them..People of different religions CAN get married so don't worry.. Ignore everyone else and do as your heart says..Don't be afriad to take risks especially when you are in love with you sweetheart..
Good luck and keep smliing =D
2006-07-03 23:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sheeree can drove to river for farhaad then why not you convert to muslim. It means you don't love her from bottom of your heart. If converting to islam can give you your whole life love and happiness then don't think and accept Islam. One thing I would like to tell you i.e. the God Jesus is also a muslim. His islamic name which we called with all our respects is 'HAZRAT ISA ALAIHISSALAATO WASSALAAM". As a muslim i love and respect him very very much. Do remember that He is the only prophet who did not died yet. He has been taken to heaven alive and the day will come when he will come back down to earth to save us from evils. He is one of the best prophet of Allah who got marvelous powers.
2006-07-03 23:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is but one God whom both of you believe in.Your family's need to BUT OUT.Its your life not Uncle bills or aunt Marys,God is Love not Muslim or Christian.A house divided cannot stand,But a house that loves God can.If the Muslims worship God and if Christians worship God the Problem Is your FAMILIES.PS>do your family's plan on paying your bills,Do they plan on Sleeping in your bed,or do they just want to walk the dog.Your life is your life,will you stand before God as a Muslim or christian or as a married man and wife who were in love.
2006-07-03 23:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by tony g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very difficult to be in this situation. You both have to decide for yourself if you ar ready to take the next step in your relationship. You two are in a realtionshipo... not the parents or anybody else..
Don't get it twisted... It's going to get ugly. Both your families will object and try to tear you gtwo apart.
If you really love eachother and are willing to fight for your relationship, then there is a small chance that your families will come around..
Again...this IS NOT going to be easy..
2006-07-03 23:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by japjongetje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow its like my boyfriend is talking...u got our problem too...i dont wanna loose him and he dont wanna loose me...freakin hard decision...the thing is it is IMPOSSIBLE for her to convert so dont think about that ...but let me tell u something...open ur mind to islam and read about how beautiful peaceful rewarding incredible it is...i doubt she would even want to leave islam ..i have never heard of a muslim converting...but read our book Youll love the religion..something else is that ull find it like christianity too but with adjustments..cuz we all were suppose to be the same religion in the first place..ok...when u figure out wut ur gonna do tell me pleasee..bye
2006-07-03 23:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Noura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sam this is the problem i face now. love doesnt consist of just gazing at each other but looking toward in the same direction. when you think that the love between both of you is true then religion does not matter. you can stay in the same religion even aftr mariage only when you have true understanding towards each other.
2006-07-03 23:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by crazygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two love each other enough, you should be able to overcome the difference of religion. Many couples have done it before. Religion isn't who you are, it shouldnt' decide who you're with. If your parents don't approve, make them approve. Elope if you have to.
You'll regret it if you lose this woman just because you two have two different religions.
2006-07-03 23:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by unisecks_cow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those incredibly difficult decisions we sometimes have to make in life. Should we choose our God or our own needs? You are the only one who can decide. Remember the promise "Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all else will be given unto thee"
2006-07-03 23:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋