2006-07-03 22:40:47 · 17 answers · asked by Melat S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think about following questions:
Do you still love your partner?
Do you love your kid?
Could you miss either of them?
2006-07-03 22:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tim D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u really need to decide wich one u want !
u dun start a realtion while u r in one already so if u want the new one leave the first one at first u cant hole 2 watermelons in 1 hand !
but fist r u sure the new love is really a true love isnt there a chance u will be confused with ur feelings not knowing u like or u love!
the last thing there is no reason to cheat ur wife is the victim not u so what ever ur doing its called cheating!
2006-07-04 05:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you got married you made vows and called God as a witness. You cannot go back on this. Even if you're not religious and the vows meant nothing it is not right to turn your back on your family. Forget about the other person and give your spouse and child all your love and attention. Marriage is not just about feelings it's also about responsibility.
2006-07-04 05:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to put your family and your kid at risk. then go ahead and do like you feel.
Marriage is not just a simple ceremony but a commitment for life. that is why most of them get the jitters before the go for it. Your husband will find a new wife you will find a new husband but what about your child, his life will never be the same.There is no replacement for parents in this world. And god forbid if your child has some problem due to your decision then you will have to answer him for the rest of your life.
2006-07-04 05:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by SPEEDO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and be with the one you're in love with. It'll be the best thing for everyone involved in the long run. Give your husband the chance to find someone who'll love him the way you love this other man. Besides, your husband will know you're not in love with him, and your child will pick up on it aswell. Take a leap of faith. Goodluck. :-)
2006-07-04 05:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what do you think to do ?because if you are married and have a kid so think and be in your relationship because so break the new to you parter so he or she mite no where each one of you are standing because you cannot live with someone if you dont love and cherish the person so stop wasting time solve before its get late because if you are late you get the child is not your any more.so do it now???
2006-07-04 05:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi 36 yr M here..... stay married!!! keep screwing this person on the side until you finally get caught or he/she gives the ultimatum. SERIOUSLY. your spouse will probably forgive you and you probably love your kid more than both partners. oh, and if you dont, you will when that kid is a few years older. trust me. dont let the kid find out though. ever.
2006-07-04 05:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by jerry s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the one u are married to because if u love someone besides that person that must mean you are not truly happy which means the same for your child so just be honest and follow your heart
2006-07-04 06:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are married, but not in love with your husband? and, you have a child? on what end is the horse attached to the cart? the way it is supposed to happen is love, marriage and baby. you got it all mixed up. don't compound that without getting divorce first. use your head.
2006-07-04 05:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, so forget about it. Do you really want to destroy your family for this? And does the other person love you as much?
2006-07-04 05:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a divorce and become another statistic. You are the reason for the skyrocketing divorce rate in this country. You are filth.
2006-07-04 06:26:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋