Hi, I'm looking for some advice- hope someone can help. I am not in a serious realationship but I (20) have been sleeping with my a boss (53) from work for roughly 6 years since June of 2000. I have just discovered that I am pregnant and have decided that it would be for the best to have a termination. I tell my boss? He is not a great lover of children and I am also worried it may affect our working relationship. He has also made it clear that he does not want a serious relationship and is happy the way we are and that he's not interested in anyone else- we get on really well but I think I have always wanted more, so I also want to know if it is time for me to move on. Looking forward to hearing from someone Thanks in advance
2006-07-03 22:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Ginny C & Hobie D 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You have been sleeping with your boss since you were 14? I think you have some other issues besides getting an abortion. You may want to get professional help for all 14 of your personalities.
2006-07-03 22:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is a though one. well congratulations on the baby, but it looks like it is going to be hard fro you for a bit. I deffinately would let him know about the baby and make sure he takes care of it, if not emotionally at least monitarilly. if you do not want a serious relationship, let him know that. I have been a single mother, and it is much easier than being in a difficult relationship with a child. Ask him what he thinks about the two of you working together. he is obviously old enough to know the consequenses of what the two of you are doing. Maybe you can come up with a solution together. If the company is large, maybe you can move so that you will still have the stability of a job. you need to think about being able to support two now. well, good luck.
2006-07-03 22:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to maintain a good post using sex, you are wrong my dear. It is totally wrong as u got the wrong concept.
Firsly, he is not serious at all, there is no point of having intimate relationship with him.
Secondly, he is much older than u, don't u find wierd?
Now u are in trouble. Are u going for abortion? Is he married or are u married? If not, u must ask him how and whether u want to marry him and have the child? If no, abortion is your only choice and do never try it again in this way.. U are just hurting your body
2006-07-03 22:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Move On. I believe the phrase is "don't $hit where you eat."
2) If I were your boss, I'd like you to tell me, and I would volunteer to pay for it.
3) If I were you, I would have it done, then tell the boss, then move on (even going so far as to finding another job).
I've messed around in the workplace before, and it resulted in nothing but ugliness.
Edit: Holy cow balls, I just realized that you've been sleeping with him since you were FOURTEEN?? HEY-O, police officer, maybe you can help me...
2006-07-03 22:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by rsantos19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the f**** is wrong with u?????????
Another question from u was, what should u do. Ur boyfriend was supposed to leave his wife 4 u, but doesn't? AND...he's tryin' to get u pregnant??? And now u r telling us he's not a great lover of kids? I thought he jhas two kids with his wife ( ur age!!!!). I think u r really SICK!!!!!!!!!!
U NEED MENTAL HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And by the way, if that is tru that u r pregnant, I REALLY FEEL SORRY FOR THE POOR CREATURE WHO'S GOIN' TO BE
THE CHILD OF A SICK PERSON LIKE U!!!!!!!!!!
U should be reported, i think if read another stupid thing from u , i will report u!
2006-07-04 01:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by cailin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to decide if your male or female some of your questions you're a 20 year old girl and in some your complaining about your wife of 20 years. You really need to get a life and stop asking such stupid questions. why don't you go play somewhere else?
2006-07-04 12:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by dixiefrogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts to say and hard for u but u have to have an abortion bcz if u let it grow and give birth the child will have no fault in what u both did.
And then u either stop sleeping with him or plz plz use contraception and birth control.
2006-07-03 22:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight, you started sleeping with your boss when you were 14 and he was 47? Thats sick. You should check in with a mental hospital
2006-07-03 22:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by morgysan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think you are making all of this up. You sent out a couple of posts at the same time. One saying you are in love with this man and want to have his baby and this one says you are pregnant and it's not serious. I think you are playing a game to see who actually eats this up. Keep having fun!
2006-07-04 10:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. I thought that he was going to leave his wife for you and that you are in love with him. What's going on? Your story isn't adding up. If you were 14 when you started sleeping with him then there is something wrong with him anyways. He's a child molester.
2006-07-04 02:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋