2006-07-03 22:18:19 · 93 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GO MY BOY!
GO GO GO.. till the end...
Love will conquer all..... God bless your love
2006-07-19 11:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
That's tough because you have to remember that if the two of you get together, you're hurting two other people, and some kids (if there are any). Sometimes, if a marriage isn't working or we're not getting what is is we really want, we tend to look elsewhere. Maybe this is just a fling and if the both of you do hook up and it doesn't work out, then you lose 2 other good people. THen again, maybe fate and destiny is overshadowing your lives right now. It is a bid decision to make, but remember, someone will be scarred in the end.
2006-07-17 09:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by hot chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. YOu in the grass is greener on the other side of the fence syndrom.
Things have gone far enough that you guys use the world love.
You have commitments to your partners. Odd of you two making it in life are almost zero. If you are unhappy in your marriage you don't do anything until you have done everything you can do to save the relationship . Then if you cant. you divorce. Then you find another woman.
This situation you are in is trouble. You will hurt tons of people. If there are kids involved- imagine what a poor role model you are to them.
What you two feel is lust and an escape from all that seems wrong in your marriages that you are in.
Remember your vows. To love honor and cherish. Be faithful etc.
Hmmmmmmm what part of the marriage vows don't you understand.
You and your lover get together and live will turn in to a nightmare.
Grow up and take care of things at home. If you need to move on then move on, but not until you exhaust everything to save what you have.
Pull you head out of your pants & be a man.
2006-07-18 11:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question should be "Is she in love with her husband?" Lets get real here......stuff like this happens. We don 't pick and choose who we fall in love with, if we did, I'd be married to Johnny Depp right now, haha. But, seriously if she is having legitimate issues with her marriage and is on the verge of a divorce, I say go for it. But, play it cool, don't rush into it so the husband blames you for the whole thing. Talk with her and make sure she isn't confused and know what she wants. I do have to say, if there are kids involved you might want to really, really think hard about the whole situation. Don't hurt the kids.
2006-07-18 10:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk, RUN away from this relationship!!! Show some respect for the husband. If she truly loves you, you will not have to tell her to get a divorce, she will want a divorce. If the two of you are in love, you can wait until she is free. Remember too, she does not respect her marriage now, what makes you think she will respect your relationship?
Don't rush into to something you may regret later. Give it some time and space.
Honestly concerned.
2006-07-17 14:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those old saying which are true to this very day.Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.What goes around comes around.You reap what you sowed.You and her have totally disregarded the marriage vows which by the way were made in front of God.And God says What God has joined together let no man tear apart.What are you doing messing with a married women anyways?Do you want to wonder if she's going to do the same to you if you hook up.My bet is she will.
2006-07-19 00:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard for you my friend and its not what you want to hear, but here it goes. Stay away from her, at least until she is a single women. Do you really think that a relationship that is started from cheating is ever going to truly make it? Think really hard about it, how many people do you know that got together this way truly made it happily? I know that there are always exceptions but think about it. The whole attraction may be the very fact that you know you shouldn't have each other. People always want what they know they cant have. Trust me, this relationship is doomed before it ever starts. I'm sorry, I know you want someone to tell you to go for it, but if its meant to be trust me, it WILL be. Think about the poor shmuck that is gonna lose everything in one fail swoop, what makes you think that the same thing cant happen to you. GOOD LUCK MAN. I wish you the best
2006-07-17 10:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by bigredpoboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from the situation now. You know she is married and I suspect new it when you began your relationship with her. You were pretty stupid to get involved with a married woman to begin with. Now you stand the chance of ruining her marriage, hurting her husband as well as committing adultery. You will be the cause of a marriage breaking up, of ruining the trust her husband has/had in her and you will make yourself and her unworthy of trust from anyone ever again. Is that what you want to do?
2006-07-15 07:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! That is not good. This relationship is already in the wrong zone. There will be no trust... respect... Love do u really know what love is? I do not call this love. I would say it is lust. There are many women out there why a married one..shame on you guys. The people you are hurting.. NO RESPECT for yourselves!
WHERE ARE YOUR MORALS!
2006-07-18 17:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either needs to wake up,and leave her husband. Or you need to get out of the situation. I was in the same predicament you are in right now, and I left. Moved away from the entire deal. It was to much hurt and pain when I was home alone and he was home with his wife. Your gonna end up with a whole lot of heartache if you don't figure out what the two of you are going to do.
2006-07-16 12:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by piperhound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your self, if that was your wife and some else got the hots, how would you fill. That is why it says in the bible do in to other as you would have done to you. You know it isn't right if your asking people here. Its just not right. And a female like that is nothing but a w hore.
2006-07-03 22:24:03 · answer #11 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋